08/29/2026
10 Things About Estate Planning Most People Don’t Realize - But Should
Estate planning is about a lot more than just having a Will. Here are 10 things that may surprise you:
1. Your Will does not control everything you own. Assets with beneficiary designations, joint owners, or certain transfer-on-death arrangements may pass outside of your Will.
2. The beneficiary form you filled out years ago may matter more than your Will. Retirement accounts and life insurance generally pass to the beneficiary listed on the account - even if your Will says something different.
3. Your family cannot automatically make decisions for you if you become incapacitated.
Without a properly executed Power of Attorney and Health Care Proxy, your loved ones may need court intervention to obtain authority to handle important financial or medical matters.
4. A Power of Attorney ends when you die. Your agent can help manage your finances during your lifetime, but their authority ends at death.
5. A Will does not avoid probate. A Will tells the Surrogate’s Court how you want your probate assets distributed. It does not, by itself, keep your estate out of court.
6. Probate is generally a public court proceeding. Court filings can reveal information about your estate, beneficiaries, and administration.
7. Waiting until a nursing home is needed may eliminate planning options. Medicaid has complex eligibility and transfer rules. Planning earlier can give families significantly more flexibility.
8. A trust is not automatically “better” than a Will. The right plan depends on your assets, family, goals, and circumstances. A trust can be incredibly useful - but only when it is the right type of trust and is properly funded.
9. Your retirement accounts need their own estate plan. Beneficiary designations and post-death distribution rules can have significant tax consequences for the people who inherit them.
10. An outdated estate plan can sometimes be worse than no plan at all. Marriage, divorce, deaths, births, new grandchildren, property purchases, changing relationships, and outdated beneficiaries can completely change how an old plan works.
The biggest estate planning mistake? Assuming the documents you signed years ago still accomplish what you want today.
Estate planning isn’t just about what happens when you die. It’s about protecting yourself, your family, and your assets while you’re here, too.