29/06/2026
“Three warning letters and then dismissal…”
Many people are familiar with this. There is a little more procedure to it than that, but for the most part, it is a basic understanding of good industrial relations practice.
But that just focuses on the process. Really, the focus should be on the people.
The process is there as a minimum standard to ensure fairness and to protect against abuse and oppression.
But the best leaders strive to go beyond this minimum standard.
In a business, especially the bigger you get, you are almost guaranteed to encounter conflicts, discipline issues and performance challenges.
But when you face these things, the goal is not just to start issuing warning letters until you think it is fair to terminate.
Yes, the industrial relations process- investigations, hearings, sanctions- is important, but even more important are the people involved in the issues.
When there are disciplinary issues (for eg, poor attendance or tardiness), the first goal should always be to understand the reason behind it. These problems don’t happen in vacuum, there is a human element to it.
Your employee might be going through personal difficulties, there may be issues with the supervisor, etc.
Your employees aren’t coming to work with the intention to underperform or behave poorly. Just like you, they want to do their best, they want to be successful, they want to make others proud.
Unfortunately, sometimes poor decisions are made in the heat of the moment, or the pressures of life cause people to falter.
Whatever the cause, if you approach problems with empathy and compassion, rather than simply trying to issue letters, you will get a better understanding of the root cause and then you might actually be able to make a positive impact.
Take the time to understand and show your employee that you are willing to give them chances to improve.
This approach can help you earn more loyalty and commitment from your employees, which will lead to improvements.
But rushing to issue letters causes your employees to fear for their jobs, adds to any potential personal issues they may already be facing, causes them to feel unsupported & demotivated, and makes them feel as if it is you against them, rather than being on the same team working towards the same vision.
The industrial relations processes are important. It helps to ensure a minimum level of fairness.
But only focusing on the process and not the people is a recipe for a broken culture.
Prioritize empathy, compassion and understanding.
Look at discipline/performance issues as opportunities to strengthen your relationships with your employees. A chance to help them grow as people.
Take the chance to work more closely with them and inspire them to grow beyond their mistakes.
There is, of course, a right time for sanctions and even dismissal. But that should not be your starting point.
Prioritize dealing with problems with empathy and compassion to help your employees improve.