17/12/2021
Important message here:
ATTY. BUMILI KA NG SASAKYAN MO
Isang abogada na sumasakay pa rin sa traysikel ang nagpahayag ng kanyang saloobin tungkol sa pagbili ng sariling sasakyan.
Another random realization.
A lot of people would usually tell me โAtty, bumili ka na ng sasakyan mo. Di bagay sayo ang nagtrtricycle. Parang di ka abogado,โ or โAtty, bumili ka na ng sasakyan mo, easy na lang yan sayo,โ or โMagcar loan ka na, dapat priority mo ang sasakyan.โ I would respond with a polite smile. All I could do is to politely smile because if I would respond honestly, I would only come out rude especially when I would point out that being a lawyer doesnโt mean that I should look rich or I should be rich for that matter. Plus, my dad would drop me off in the office every morning so a tricycle commute ride home is no big deal.
Let me tell you this: you donโt have to prove your professional capacity with the properties you own. I would understand if I am told to consider buying a car for convenience or for safety and security more so if hearings are outside the City. But if I am told to buy one to look like a lawyer? Bro, pass! I donโt need to stage my life just so I can justify my profession. Bibili ako once kaya na ng savings ko.
Minsan kasi, we are too judgy no?
โUy nagtrtricy lang si Atty oh. Di man lang makabili ng sasakyan. Baka kasi hindi malakas ang kita kasi wala siyang clients. Baka hindi matalino.โ
โUy tignan mo yung bahay ni Engr oh, ang liit ng bahay. Baka walang clients kasi hindi maganda ang gawa.โ
โUy tignan mo si maโam oh, matagal na yang teacher pero di pa nakakapundar. Hindi siguro magaling yan, kasi kung magaling yan government teacher na sana yan.โ
โUy tignan mo yang nurse na yan. Ang tagal na niyang nurse pero sa apartment pa rin nakatira. Di kasi tumataas ang sahod kasi hindi napropromote. Hindi siguro magaling yan.โ
Reality is, we quantify oneโs intellect and skills with the properties and material things he owns. Ang sad no? What we donโt realize is that we have our own priorities, our own timelines. One lawyer or any professional who is only practicing for a year could buy a car or a house in a snap because maybe, that is his priority. While another who is practicing for five years couldnโt buy one because his priority is to save for the education of his siblings, for the medication of an ailing parent, for preparation of marriage, or for charity-who knows? Regardless of priorities and of properties, we should stop equating intellect and skills with wealth. Hindi dahil hindi pa siya mayaman, bobo na siya. Malay natin hindi lang siya corrupt. ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ
Is it lack of ambition? Yes if you are lazy. No if you have other necessary priorities.
Whatโs my point? Wala. Bahala na kayong gumets. Let me just enjoy my tricycle ride and my coke float in peace.
Photo: Kathrine Jessica Calano (Facebook)