25/10/2025
She Was Asked to Drink Her Late Husbandâs Bath Water But the Law Said No
The social media space was recently flooded with the heartbreaking story of a young widow from Awo Omamma in Oru East LGA, Imo State, whose husband died after a protracted illness.
During the burial, her in-laws allegedly insisted that she must drink and bathe with the water used in bathing her late husbandâs co**se and even wanted to shave her childrenâs hair as part of a so-called cleansing ritual.
This is not just cruelty; it is a crime under Nigerian law.
Rescue came when the matter was reported to the Imo State Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Welfare, HH Lady Nkechinyere Ugwu (Mama Palliative) and the Office of Her Excellency, Chief Dr Chioma Uzodimma, wife of the Governor of Imo State.
Working with the Chairman of Oru East LGA, Virgin Heart Foundation, Onurube Initiative, and security personnel, the Ministryâs team intervened immediately and stopped the act. The widow and her children were rescued, and those involved handed over to law enforcement for prosecution.
Across Nigeria, many widows still suffer degrading and inhuman widowhood practices in the name of culture. But the law is clear and uncompromising.
Under Section 17 of the Imo State Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Law No. 8 of 2021,
âDrinking the water used in washing a widowâs husbandâs co**se,â
âcompulsory shaving of her hair,â
âsleeping beside the co**se,â and similar acts are criminal offences.
Anyone who carries out such practices is liable on conviction to imprisonment for a term not exceeding three years or to a fine not less than five hundred thousand naira or both.
Even attempting to commit such acts attracts imprisonment for a term not exceeding two years or a fine not exceeding three hundred thousand naira or both.
Before you say that is only in Imo State, know that most states in Nigeria have now domesticated the Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act, including Anambra, Abia, Enugu, Ebonyi, Lagos, Benue, and Edo States.
Widowhood is not a crime. It deserves compassion, not cruelty.
Any custom or tradition that humiliates or harms a widow is unlawful and punishable under the law.
Every widow in Nigeria should know this: you have rights and the law protects you.
If anyone tries to subject you to such treatment, report to the Ministry of Women Affairs, the Police, or a recognised human rights organisation.
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