13/05/2026
没工作 = 拿不到孩子抚养权？❌很多人都误会了…⚠️
离婚后获得孩子抚养权难吗？这是一个常见的误解！
⚠️当母亲们谈论离婚时，她们会立即担心这样的事情：👇
👉“我没有收入……”
👉“我失业了……”
👉“法院不会做出有利于父亲的裁决吗？”
❌但在马来西亚"谁有钱谁赢"并不适用⚖️对法庭来说什么更重要？
答案是：→儿童的最大利益👶在决定监护权时，法官特别注意以下几点：
✅谁是主要联系人？谁主要关心孩子的吃饭、穿衣、功课和健康？
✅生活稳定：什么样的家庭能让孩子保持正常的作息，避免频繁的搬家和转学？
✅子女的遗嘱：如果子女达到一定年龄（通常为8岁或以上），法院也会考虑子女的感受
✅父母的性格：他们是暴力还是忽视孩子？
❗钱不是万能的⚠️但这些挑战确实存在，“没有工作并不意味着自动失去监护权”，
但大法官仍考虑以下几点：👇
👉孩子们以后怎么生活？
👉谁来承担日常开支？
👉居住地是否稳定，做好这些准备万无一失：
📌为孩子的生活制定一个坚实的计划
📌表示会有支援
📌展示孩子目前生活稳定
如果你正在考虑或面临这个处境，有几件事可以主动去做：首先，收集你是主要照顾者的证据，比如孩子的医疗记录、学校联络记录、日常照顾的照片等。其次，积极展示你正在寻找工作或有稳定的收入计划，法院看重的是你的意愿和能力，而不只是当下的状态。再者，如果可以，争取家人（如父母）的支持网络，说明孩子在你这边有完整的照顾体系。每个案件情况都不同。
孩子年龄、照顾历史、双方关系、生活环境等，都会影响结果。
-建议在离婚前先了解自己的法律位置，不要只听别人说。
Is It Difficult To Get Child Custody After Divorce? This Is One Of The Biggest Misconceptions ⚠️
When mothers think about divorce, these worries usually come first👇
👉 “I don’t have an income…”
👉 “I’m unemployed…”
👉 “Won’t the court favour the father?”
❌ But in Malaysia 🇲🇾, custody cases are NOT simply about “who has more money wins.” ⚖️
So what matters most to the court?
👶 The best interests of the child.
When deciding custody, the judge will usually consider factors such as:
✅ Who is the primary caregiver
Who mainly takes care of the child’s meals, clothing, schoolwork, medical needs, and daily routine?
✅ Stability of the child’s life
Which home environment allows the child to maintain a stable routine without frequent moving or changing schools?
✅ The child’s wishes
If the child is of sufficient age and maturity (commonly around 8 years old and above), the court may also consider the child’s views.
✅ The parents’ behaviour and character
Whether there are issues such as violence, neglect, or lack of involvement in the child’s life.
❗ Money is NOT everything.
⚠️ However, practical concerns still matter.
Being unemployed does NOT automatically mean losing custody, but the court may still consider:
👉 How the child’s future living arrangements will be managed
👉 Who will handle daily expenses
👉 Whether the living environment is stable
To strengthen your position, it helps to:
📌 Prepare a clear plan for the child’s future care and living arrangements
📌 Show that you have support available (family members, childcare assistance, etc.)
📌 Demonstrate that the child’s current life is stable
If you are considering divorce or currently facing this situation, there are proactive steps you can take.
First, gather evidence showing that you are the primary caregiver, such as:
📄 medical records
📄 school communication records
📄 photos of daily caregiving activities
Second, show that you are actively seeking employment or have a stable financial plan. The court looks at your willingness and ability to provide, not just your current employment status.
Third, if possible, demonstrate that you have a strong family support system (for example, parents helping with childcare), showing that the child will have a stable care environment with you.
Every custody case is different.
Factors such as the child’s age, caregiving history, relationship between the parties, and living conditions can all affect the outcome.
📌 It is always advisable to understand your legal position before making decisions about divorce, rather than relying solely on what others say.
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