16/10/2022
Distress - abuse - and compassion
A deed that happened, it was like this:
It's almost 9 in the morning, we are getting ready to go to the sukkah to eat breakfast.
The phone beeps, a message from the message center:
"Emergency case, requesting urgent contact."
I immediately called, on the other end of the line was a man, I don't know the man.
He begins to tell a difficult story, I understand that I need to wear the hat of the "psychologist" in order not to aggravate the situation.
I don't deal with divorce or family matters, but a person who causes obvious psychological damage to another person, it is already a matter of awakening the lion in him.
It is about a couple, 3 small children, and a normal family all around, except for the father of that man's wife.
This father, decided that he controls all family matters and whoever does not obey him will be punished, yelling, humiliation, and forcing his will.
The daughter, the guy's wife chooses to answer this father time after time.
This is the background.
This morning, she came to talk to her husband, after they have been sleeping apart for over six months and their sons have nothing, asking him to sign a document.
It turns out that the couple won a lottery for housing for a tenant, she asks him to sign that he gives up the choice of the apartment.
It turns out, from the conversation with her, that her father has already seen plans, and he is the one who is going to choose the apartment.
When he refused, she spat in his face and slapped him.
The man, not wanting to go to the police, he doesn't want her to get into trouble, doesn't want to hurt her, says outright that he still loves her.
He is in a distressed state, experience shows, according to the conversation with him, that the woman and her father caused this poor man post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
I understand the man's reluctance to go to war in family court, I also understand his need to stand up for his rights.
The man ended the conversation with me with "I have rights, I want them to compensate me for what they did"
I am sharing this horrifying story with you because I am sure there are people who are in this place.
Anyone who has been harmed physically or mentally is entitled to compensation, period, end!
There is also another way to end a relationship with a poisonous and abusive person.
The holiday season is a time when toxic people are at the height and height of their abuse.
Take care of yourself, because nothing is worth your health.
Remember that the lions of Shemesh Co. are there to solve any situation, to help and hug even on holidays.
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