04/06/2026
The school holiday arrangements that still work five years after separation have three things in common:
📅 Specific timeframes for notice Not "reasonable notice" but actual numbers. "Six weeks' notice for holidays during school breaks."
🗓️ Clear split of holiday time Not "we'll share them fairly" but "Week 1 and 2 with Dad, Week 3 and 4 with Mum" or "Even years I get Christmas, odd years you do."
🎂 What happens with special occasions Birthdays, religious holidays, family events. Agreed in advance, not negotiated every time.
That's not rigidity. That's clarity. And clarity is what lets you be genuinely flexible when circumstances actually change.
If you're recognizing patterns in your current arrangements that aren't working - or realizing you don't actually have arrangements, just assumptions - now's the time to address it.
Before the next school holiday turns good intentions into conflict.
Read the full article about what makes holiday arrangements work:
https://fulfordlegalservices.co.uk/school-holiday-arrangements-separated-parents/