09/06/2026
When is a marriage truly over?
What leads to the breakdown of a marriage?
How long does a woman continue to endure a husband who is increasingly absent from the relationship?
Having arranged marriage she gave birth to two beautiful children She worked full-time whilst raising her children, managing the school runs, after-school activities, and weekend entertainment, all while paying close attention to their education and future prospects.
At the age of 22, she attended night classes to obtain her A-levels in English, Mathematics, and Science. By the age of 24, she qualified as a DVL Approber driving instructor, and set up her own driving school, enabling her to work around her children’s schedules.
Determined to provide her children with the very best opportunities in life, she worked tirelessly. To overcome her loneliness, she pursued a passion she had held since childhood.
She had always dreamed of becoming either a doctor or a pilot. Whilst life took her down a different path, she enrolled for flying lessons at Warwickshire Airfield and successfully obtained her Private Pilot Licence.
That woman is me.
Today, I look back with gratitude rather than resentment. Every hardship, every disappointment, every challenge, and every setback helped shape the person I have become.
I thank Allah for the struggles that strengthened me, the tests that refined me, and the journey that taught me resilience, perseverance, and self-belief.
I believe anyone overcame life challenges if you set yourself goals.
الحمد لله يا رب
What challenges did you endeavour in your life and how did you overcome them?