Oerton Simm

15/10/2026

13/10/2026

We know that asking for family law advice often comes at a difficult and uncertain time.

That’s why we believe listening matters just as much as advising. We take the time to understand what our clients need, explain the way forward clearly and support them through each step without adding unnecessary pressure.

Thank you for taking the time to share these kind words. Feedback like this means a great deal to us.

If you need some clarity about a family law matter, we’re here when you’re ready.

06/10/2026

Pensions can be one of the easiest things to overlook during a divorce.

We understand why.

When you're thinking about the family home, savings, bills and what life will look like afterwards, retirement can feel a long way down the list. But pensions can represent a significant part of the overall financial picture, even when retirement is still many years away.

When we're helping someone understand their finances on divorce, we may need to look at what pension provision exists and obtain appropriate information about its value.

Depending on the circumstances, pensions can be dealt with in different ways. A Pension Sharing Order, for example, can provide for a percentage of pension rights to be transferred for the benefit of a former spouse.

Another approach is pension offsetting, where the pension itself isn't shared but its value is considered alongside other assets when looking at the overall financial settlement.

Pensions can be complex, and specialist pension advice may sometimes be appropriate.

Our advice is not to focus only on what feels most important today. Property, savings, debts, income and pensions may all need to be considered when looking at your longer-term financial security.

If you haven't thought about pensions yet, that's okay. Our role is to help you understand the bigger picture and explain your options clearly.

If something about your divorce finances feels uncertain, we're here when you're ready.

Call Oerton Simm on 01823 259449, email [email protected], or visit our contact page to arrange a confidential conversation.

29/09/2026

After the busiest part of a divorce or separation has passed, you may find yourself wondering: what now?

Moving forward rarely happens in one big step.

It might mean creating a new routine, getting a clearer picture of your finances, setting new boundaries or simply making plans you can look forward to again.

Some days, progress might just mean dealing with one thing rather than everything.

There is no timetable for finding your feet after divorce. Small steps count too.

And if there are legal matters still sitting in the background, getting clear advice can help you understand what still needs to be dealt with and what can finally be put behind you.

What small things can help life feel more settled after a big change?

If something still feels uncertain, it’s okay to ask, we are here for when you are ready.

22/09/2026

Leaving a controlling relationship can involve much more than ending a marriage.

You may be worried about how your partner will react. You may have limited access to money, important documents or even your own phone. You may feel watched, pressured or frightened about making decisions.

The word “narcissist” is often used to describe a difficult or controlling partner. Legally, however, the important issue is their behaviour and the effect it has on you and any children.

Depending on your circumstances, legal advice could cover divorce, finances, arrangements for children and protective orders.

You can also seek initial legal information without telling your partner. If you are worried about your safety, take care when using phones or other devices that may be monitored.

You deserve to be listened to without judgement.

If you are in immediate danger, call 999. If you cannot speak and are calling from a mobile, press 55 when prompted to be transferred to the police.

The National Domestic Abuse Helpline is free and available 24 hours a day on 0808 2000 247.

16/09/2026

One misunderstanding can create more worry than the legal process itself.

In the slides below, we’re looking at five common divorce myths and explaining the reality behind each one.

Family law can feel less frightening when the myths are replaced with clear information.

Save this post for a time when you need a simple reminder.

Q. Which divorce myth have you heard most often?

08/09/2026

Kind words like these mean a great deal to us.

We know that family law often comes at a time when life already feels difficult and uncertain. Hearing that someone felt supported, understood and able to ask for help when they needed it is exactly what we hope to provide.

We’re very grateful they took the time to share their experience.

If you’re facing a family law matter and aren’t sure where to start, we’re here when you’re ready.

01/09/2026

This is one of the first questions many people ask us and that’s understandable.
When life feels uncertain, having a clearer idea of the timeline can help.

In England and Wales, there are two minimum waiting periods:

✔️20 weeks from the court issuing the application before you can apply for the conditional order
✔️Six weeks and one day from the conditional order before you can apply for the final order

So even a straightforward divorce will take several months.

It can take longer if there are delays, paperwork needs correcting, someone does not respond promptly, or financial matters are still being resolved.

It’s also important to remember that the divorce timetable and financial settlement timetable are not always the same.

Understanding what happens at each stage can make the process feel a little more manageable.

Need some clarity about your next step? Talk to Oerton Simm when you’re ready.
Please call us at Oerton Simm on 01823 259449, email us at [email protected] or find us at https://www.oertonsimm.co.uk/support/contact-us/

25/08/2026

Did you know there was a legal difference between separation and divorce?
Living apart and being divorced are not the same thing.

It sounds simple, but it’s something that can cause a lot of confusion when a relationship comes to an end.

You might know that you want to separate, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re ready to divorce.

And that’s okay.

There are different options, and understanding them can help you feel a little more in control of what happens next.

We’ve broken down separation, judicial separation and divorce in the reel, in straightforward language, so you can see the difference without being overwhelmed by legal terminology.

There is no single right route for every family. What matters is understanding what each option means for you before deciding on your next step.

👉 Watch out reel for a simple overview.

If you’re unsure which option may be right for your circumstances, a conversation can often help make things clearer.

18/08/2026

The hardest part of divorce can be the uncertainty.

There may be worries about the future, finances, family life and what happens next. It is completely understandable to feel overwhelmed.

Clear legal advice can help make the situation feel more manageable. It allows people to understand their options and take the process one step at a time. Please do contact us if you need that down to earth legal advice.

Support from family, friends or a counsellor can also make a real difference.

What support do you think people need most during a separation?