Alexander Christian

29/05/2026

Most parents want the same thing: for their children to grow up feeling loved, secure, and free to enjoy their childhood.

But during separation - and it is likely not to be the intention - but the little comments, side eyes and sighs that you may not even be fully aware yourself are observed by the children.

And these moments can remain - an embedded memory of their childhood experience of your separation.

The atmosphere: the tone of voice, the tension at birthdays, the handovers that felt like peace talks.

I’ve written something a blog about this:
What story will your child carry from this chapter of their life?

It’s about orientation.
About the small, practical things one parent can change, even when the other parent won’t or can’t.

If you’re navigating separation and want to understand how your behaviour shapes your child’s emotional world, this piece may help.

Read the full post here:
👉 What story will your child tell?
https://www.alexanderchristian.co.uk/blogs/post/what-stories-will-your-children-tell

And if you want to explore what one step better could look like for your family, the Co‑Parenting Workshop offers a private, one‑to‑one space to work through your own patterns and responses - not mediation, not therapy, but practical, grounded support.

Learn more:
👉 Co‑parenting workshop
https://www.alexanderchristian.co.uk/london-co-parenting-workshops

In the midst of separation, a child becomes the silent observer. The legal process ends. The memories do not. Every family has its stories. The ones re

12/05/2026

Question: do you really need more advertising? Or do you need to be more targetted?

I help London Professionals and Small Businesses dig deep and find their clarity.

Scan the QR code to jump into the right page. See you there.

09/05/2026

Working hard is not the same as moving in the right direction. When the path starts choosing you, clarity fades.
If you want to reset your direction, the consultancy workshops might be the clarity you need.

I help professionals and small businesses reconnect with the direction they actually want to travel. Book a consultation and let’s find the right workshop for you.

05/05/2026

Are you a busy professional or small business in North West London looking for clearer direction?

- You’re working hard, but not consistently reaching the clients you want
- Your messaging feels unfocused or hard to articulate
- You’d value a peer‑level conversation with someone outside your existing network

If that sounds familiar, this is exactly the kind of situation I work with.

You can contact me through my website, and we can begin a constructive, grounded conversation about where you are and what needs to change.

www.alexanderchristian.co.uk

02/05/2026

The Forty Elephants weren’t just a Victorian curiosity, they were a fully evolved criminal enterprise whose methods map perfectly onto today’s AML framework.

This piece traces their operations through placement, layering, and integration, showing how furs, silks, jewellery and cash moved from theft, through fence networks, into the legitimate economy.

The result is a vivid reminder that the red flags we look for today have been with us for over a century, unexplained wealth, false documentation, complex structures, insider risk, and the assumption of legitimacy.

History doesn’t just echo modern financial crime. It explains it.

Read my blog to find out more:

https://www.alexanderchristian.co.uk/blogs/post/the-forty-elephants-placement-layering-integration

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Alexander Christian

19/04/2026

Cricklewood, London early 1900’s

19/04/2026

Sunday is a good day to pause.

Not to switch off. Just to notice what the week actually asked of you.

If you are a solicitor, an accountant, or a small business owner in NW London, chances are the week asked quite a lot. And chances are you carried most of it quietly.

At Alexander Christian we work with professionals and families who are dealing with things that do not fit neatly into a job description.

Co-parenting after separation.
Compliance that keeps you up at night.
A business that needs more than a spreadsheet to move forward.

We are not here to sell you a package. We are here because the right support at the right time changes things.

If something this week made you think it might be time for a different kind of conversation, our website is a good place to start.
Rest well. We are here Monday.

19/04/2026

Great to see our community coming together to support one another.

The Central Mosque of Brent, in partnership with London’s Community Kitchen, is launching an additional Brent Surplus Food Market every Thursday outside the main Sainsbury’s on the High Road from 5pm.

This initiative is open to everyone.

No IDs, checks or appointments needed. Just come along and take what you need.

Alongside helping residents with the rising cost of living, this project also plays an important role in reducing food waste by redistributing surplus food that would otherwise go to landfill, ensuring it reaches those who need it most and helping tackle food hunger in our borough.

If you or someone you know could benefit, please do spread the word.

18/04/2026

Free webinars may be two a penny…

But you probably haven’t seen one quite like this.

This one is about Business Storytelling - and if that phrase feels unfamiliar, that’s your first reason to grab a free seat.

Storytelling is the oldest communication tool we have. It holds attention. It creates emotional connection. And it sticks.

There’s a reason you remember a colleague’s story about their commute, but can’t recall the data they shared in the same meeting. Stories engage us at a deeper level.

Business Storytelling takes that power and applies it to your world:
your brand, your services, your clients, your conversations.

It’s not just your story - it’s how your story aligns with your prospect’s story.
When those two connect, you become memorable.

And memorable often becomes first choice.

Curious? Good.

That’s exactly the point.

Here’s the link to join the free session:
https://linkly.link/2e293

14/04/2026

You may think that family court and family mediation are your only options - but you could consider my Co-Parent Workshop.

After 30 years involved in family law, I realise the importance of finding alternative routes, and looking to the long term.

This workshop is specifically for solo co-parents who wish to be child centred, forward focused, want to improve their co-parenting relationship, not interested in tearing their ex apart. So if you are interested and live in NW London contact me.

Read my latest blog and book a consultation or a workshop. Let's resolve not fight.



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