02/09/2026
Mediation gets written off by people who assume it's just for amicable splits - that if things are tense, it's straight to court. It's often the opposite.
Mediation is designed to help people who don't fully agree reach workable arrangements with a trained neutral in the room, without the cost and combativeness of a courtroom. It won't suit every situation - where there's been abuse or a serious imbalance of power, but for most separating couples it's quicker, cheaper, and easier on any children involved.
You are also required to attempt medication before using the court process, but those who see it as a chance to reach a swifter, and potentially more amicable settlement, can often avoid a lot of the stresses and expenses of having a judge decide.
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