17/07/2026
The 'Sideways Inheritance' trap is probably the most heart-breaking thing I see in my job.
It’s been a busy few days responding to all your messages about the 'Remarriage Trap', it’s clear this is something that catches a lot of us by surprise! A common question I've been asked is: "But surely my new partner would just look after my children anyway?"
In an ideal world, yes. But the law doesn't have a 'common sense' filter. If you pass away without an updated Will, your estate usually passes automatically to your new spouse. If they then pass away or remarry themselves, your own children could be legally disinherited from your estate entirely.
It isn’t about a lack of trust; it’s about making sure the law doesn't decide your family's future for you. We see family relationships strained to breaking point because of this simple oversight.
If you’re part of a blended family and want to make sure no one gets left behind, it’s worth a quick, jargon-free chat to get it sorted.
Has anyone else heard of this happening, or is it a new worry for you?
Best,
Phil