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"You can leave their pension.""Why are we waiting for pension information it's not important." "I'm only concerned about...
12/07/2022

"You can leave their pension."

"Why are we waiting for pension information it's not important."

"I'm only concerned about my interest in the family home."

"They can keep their pensions."

"They're concerned I will go after their pension but I'm not interested in their pension."

The above are somethings I hear all to often. Pensions are often neglected in divorce settlements despite their value to both partners.

However, private pensions can sometimes be the most valuable asset for some couples after the family home and must be carefully considered as part of any financial settlement following divorce.

Don't forget about Pensions!!!!

Part 2 – Transferable Skills  Portishead Marina is governed by lock gates. You have to book your lock time. If I was lat...
24/04/2022

Part 2 – Transferable Skills  

Portishead Marina is governed by lock gates. You have to book your lock time. If I was late, I would miss the boat – literally! You cannot have poor time management skills on the water and it’s the same working in the legal profession. With good time management skills, you will be better equipped to identify which tasks to focus on each day, minimise distractions, track progress and deadlines and assess your work processes to improve efficiency. 

Being out on the water you have to be adaptable. You never know when unexpected weather will appear or broken equipment etc and you have to be able to deal with it. The same applies in the work place – business strategies are ever-changing. For this reason, you must be able to demonstrate that you can adapt to changes, learn new skills and ensure that work is done efficiently, even as demands increase. Similarly, you must be able to solve problems at sea and this is no different in law. Whatever the catalysts, the ability to function calmly and effectively in high-stress situation is a prerequisite for any legal professional.  

When you have been on a boat for a long stint you develop the ability to push through when fatigue sets in, and to rest when you can. If you want to succeed in the legal profession, you would need a strong work ethic. On occasions, I have had numerous hearings in short succession together with my daily tasks. You have no choice but to power through and ensure that you are still providing a high-quality service. 

 

What hobbies have helped you develop/uncover strengths and transferable skills?

Making my way down the Bristol Channel I started to give some thought to… how can I use this adventure to sell myself fo...
24/04/2022

Making my way down the Bristol Channel I started to give some thought to… how can I use this adventure to sell myself for my next career move? Law students, who have no work experience in the legal sector, will have to do just that – referring to the transferable skills they already have. The trip itself has taken a few weeks of planning and preparation. The most important issue obviously being what food to bring to avoid being hangry and whether there is enough Gin onboard! Check and Check!!! 

With being extremely busy leading up to the departure date, I have also had to be organised and disciplined. Being organised helps with planning projects, tasks and goals, allocating time and resources. This in turn will establish a productive work ethic. Most law firms will require solicitors and paralegals (also referred to as fee earners) to record their time. You will have to justify the time you have worked on each matter, and describe in detail and account for every billable hour. Time recording makes it easier for clients to see the full extent of the work being undertaken on their behalf and to see how they are being charged. It also allows law firms to monitor employee’s performance and increase revenue. Being organised is an incredibly important skill, it will improve your own productivity and efficiency and in turn provide a better client service.  

Transferable skills to be continued …

ADVENTURE DIARIES 🎉You don’t have to go to the Caribbean to find amazing beaches. The UK has some of the most stunning b...
23/04/2022

ADVENTURE DIARIES 🎉You don’t have to go to the Caribbean to find amazing beaches. The UK has some of the most stunning beaches in the world. A few days ago, I left Portishead to the South Coast. With some well-deserved time off and the sun beginning to make an appearance, I believed the timing couldn’t have been more apt. Puppy Bentley has come for the ride too as he has a bad case of FOMO.

The boat was packed a few days prior with only some last-minute essentials dropped of the morning of our departure. I walked Bentley to the Marina on what can only be described as an absolute stunning morning - the sun was shining, a light wind and everyone I met along the way was smiling.

Portishead Marina itself is situated off the Bristol Channel and you can see Wales in the distance. The Bristol Channel has the second largest tidal range in the world (up to 15m) and vast quantities of commercial shipping in the vicinity. For those non-boaters this refers to the rise and fall of the water. When there is a lot of water, the water movement can be very strong and at low water, the various banks, shoals, and islands are dry and visible (not so helpful when you are on a boat!). You have to choose your timings wisely.

There is a traffic light system on the lock gates to let you know when you can approach and at 9am they were showing green – we are off!

The journey begins with us pottering out of the lock and into the King Road (the Bristol Channel). The Portishead coastline is brimming with low cliffs, eroded rocks, pebble beaches, patches of woodland, fancy houses and a lighthouse. The water sadly isn’t like the Caribbean instead has a mud brown tone - you can’t have everything!

If you left for an adventure tomorrow, where would it be to and why?

Spring is here! Some families will be celebrating Easter, and others will be spending quality time together. Whatever yo...
14/04/2022

Spring is here! Some families will be celebrating Easter, and others will be spending quality time together. Whatever your plans this holiday, it’s important to stay focused on the children and the time spent with them. Here's a few tips for co-parenting this Easter 🐣

🐰 Prioritise your Children. 

You may still be dealing with a lot of leftover feelings or issues from your separation. Perhaps your relationship has only recently ended and matters are raw. While this probably still impacts you, it doesn’t mean your children should have to worry about those issues during your time together. Leave the grown-up problems to the grown-ups. Focus on your special time with your children. If you find yourself reverting back to negativity or upset feelings, remind yourself how valuable your children are to you and how much you love spending time with them.

🐣 Simplicity is Key. 

I often hear that parents feel pressure to plan over-the-top activities or events when they have the children( even more so over holidays). From theme park trips to gifts and more, parents can sometimes feel that these kind of adventures or purchases are the best way to keep the children happy when they spend time with them. For children, visiting their extended family, going on an Easter egg hunt, riding bikes or playing with the family pet can often be just as fun as the bigger events.

🐇 Have Fun.

Its important not to get too worried about making this a so-called 'perfect' holiday. Try to live in the moment, and enjoy whatever you and your children get up to over the next few days. Whether you visit family members, hunt for Easter eggs, play outside or simply be together, the children will be happy you are there to spend time with them. And they’ll be happy they can just be children.

Remember do not feel pressured to overdo your plans, prove yourself as the superior parent or talk to them about things beyond your control. Keep it simple, stupid (KISS)

A significant change has taken place in the world of Family Law today, marking the introduction of No-Fault Divorce in E...
06/04/2022

A significant change has taken place in the world of Family Law today, marking the introduction of No-Fault Divorce in England and Wales.

Separation is one of the most stressful and traumatic life events that people can experience. Many of my clients are keen to separate on good terms and/or keep matters as amicably as possible. However, having a system based on blame and a requirement to detail as to why the marriage ended is not conducive to this. No fault divorce will hopefully reduce potential conflict and make the process easier for clients and their family. In addition, the law allows joint applications for the first time, removes the ability to defend a divorce and simplifies the divorce terminology and language.

The change in the law was partly inspired following the unusual case of Owens v Owens. Mrs Owens, the wife of a mushroom farmer, who said she was trapped in a loveless marriage and wanted to it to end. Mr Owen refused. Despite his wife having had an affair and the couple living in separate houses, he claimed she was just 'bored' and insisted they still had a 'few years' to enjoy life together. The Supreme Court ruled Mrs Owen must stay married as she failed to establish that her marriage had irretrievably broken down, as was required by law. It is exceptional to have a contested divorce and even more so for the court not to grant the divorce, this case simply highlighted the unfairness and the requirement for change.

Will there now be an influx of Divorce applications??? There may be an initial spike in applications because individuals have been holding off waiting for the new laws to come in and there will also be a slight backlog given that the Court portal has been closed for a week.

Just a quick reminder that new Divorce laws come into force next week. If you have already started your application or w...
30/03/2022

Just a quick reminder that new Divorce laws come into force next week. If you have already started your application or want the current law to apply, you have until 4pm tomorrow - get a wriggle on!

# jfl

# separatingparents

Roses are red, violets are blue, just to be on the safe side consider having a pre-nup too ! 😉  Valentines Day is a day ...
14/02/2022

Roses are red, violets are blue, just to be on the safe side consider having a pre-nup too ! 😉

Valentines Day is a day of love and romance. However, Valentines Day can mean different things to different people based on their relationship status and views. For me, today is just another Monday although all my local shops are covered in pink and red, and heart-shaped goods! For some individuals who are recently separated, or in unhealthy relationships, Valentines Day 💝 can be a mixture of different emotions. Please be kind to yourself and remember social media is not always an accurate reflection of individuals lives and relationships. If you are struggling today, reach out to friends and family members don't bottle things up ❤️

I love this expression! I wanted to wish you all a wonderful holiday season. I have spent the last few months recovering...
23/12/2021

I love this expression! I wanted to wish you all a wonderful holiday season. I have spent the last few months recovering from Covid. I am, therefore, beyond excited to be able to spend a few days with my family (if Boris lets me!).

I know that in most families the holidays can be quite frantic especially for parents who are no longer together. In case you missed my video this week here are some tips which I hope will help ease the stress.

*Make your children the highest priority - even if this does mean having to make compromises with your ex!

*Make sure your children know when they will be seeing both parents. Give them the opportunity to speak to you about any concerns. I remember as a child I spent one Christmas in a cottage in the Lake District and my main concern was whether Santa would know where I was!

*Don't count the minutes - it doesn't look like we will be expecting snow in Bristol, UK over Christmas although even without bad weather individuals can run late. I know it is frustrating when your schedule goes off track however, specifically at Christmas time don't count the minutes. You want your children to remember what special time they've had with both of their parents and not the argument they over heard due to a late handover.

*Be respectful of your co-parent and put any hostility aside. Do not, I repeat do not try and out-do the other parent it will not end well! Remember unless there are welfare concerns, children should have the chance to spend quality time with both of their parents.

*LAST but certainly not least - look after yourself! I talk a great deal on here about self-care and over Christmas is no different. Your child’s enjoyment of Christmas depends on there being a happy and loving environment - if you are looking after your own mental well being then you will be better placed to create this atmosphere. If you are not seeing your children on Christmas Day, arrange to stay with family or friends. Children can also experience guilt if they know they are leaving you alone on Christmas, so they will feel more secure knowing you have something to look forward to.

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With technology becoming increasingly more sophisticated there seems to be a rise of individuals who resort to spying ta...
04/08/2021

With technology becoming increasingly more sophisticated there seems to be a rise of individuals who resort to spying tactics. The .independent reported recently that 1 in 5 people going through divorce “uses surveillance equipment to spy on spouse”.

In practice too, I have noticed the issue becoming progressively more common - most likely due to the tools being readily accessible. I have known individuals installing cameras in the family home as they believed that their partner was having an affair and wanted to catch them in the 'act'. In addition, I have experienced spouses who tracked their partner’s car and phone to see whether they are being dishonest about their whereabouts. Individuals with advanced computer skills and hacking abilities, have monitored their partners use of mobile phones (including messages and website searches) and used 'Alexa' to listen into their spouses’ conversations remotely.

'Spying' tactics have also been used to confirm or disprove the following: -
1. Aggressive behaviour or difficulties at handovers;
2. whether a former spouse has commenced employment; and
3. whether a former spouse is cohabiting.

In terms of the family court, covert recordings are generally not admissible. You will require the Judge’s permission to rely on such evidence and the issue may be heavily contested by the other party. In previous cases I have been granted permission to include covert recordings however, only in cases where they have been relevant to the issues and considered necessary. For example, in children disputes when the evidence demonstrates a child welfare issue. In financial remedy proceedings, there is no obligation on the court to admit any or all evidence concerning the parties' resources. In deciding whether to admit information, the court must consider the importance of the evidence, the conduct of the parties and any other relevant factors.

The court prefers unedited evidence for obvious reasons. Therefore, the family court is more likely to grant permission if the entire incident/conversation has been recorded or the full chain of messages are included rather than an edited selection.

In Re B (A child), Former President of the Family Division James Munby said:
“Whatever the nature of the recording, a number of issues are likely to arise. Again, without any pretence to completeness it is obvious that questions may arise as to
(i) the lawfulness of what has been done;
(ii) best practice outside the court room as it were;
(iii) the admissibility of the recording in evidence; and
(iv) a variety of other evidential and practice issue (for example, as to how the recording is to be put in evidence, problems in relation to sound and picture quality, and, in particular, disputes as to authenticity – who are the people who can be heard or seen on the recording, has the recording been edited or “cut and spliced”? – which may necessitate calling expert evidence).’”

Therefore, if relying on recordings be prepared to…
1. Confirm the date of the recording
2. Explain the way in which the recording was made
3. Explain why the recording was made
4. Explain the context of the recording and disclose the entire recording
5. Explain why the court needs to see or hear the recording

The issue of covert recordings is a difficult balancing exercise. The evidence can either help or hinder a case. Therefore, I would strongly recommend anyone representing themselves to seek legal advice on the issue.

It’s okay to take a break and that’s exactly what I have done!Over the past 3 months I have been busy with some time-con...
02/08/2021

It’s okay to take a break and that’s exactly what I have done!

Over the past 3 months I have been busy with some time-consuming cases and there simply hasn’t been enough hours in the day. I have been focusing on my clients and not burning out.

I booked a trip touring Scotland and have come back refocused with a fresh perspective. For any of you that haven’t been to Scotland – I recommend the NC500. The NC500 is Scotland’s answer to Route 66. It is just over 500 miles of the most stunning coastal scenery. I will be able to share details of the trip with you over the next few weeks.

Back to the day job! It has not stopped. I have even ventured into the office in Queen Square. Currently all Court hearings I’ve had have been remote and that seems to be the expectation going forward.

There have been several private children law cases I have been involved in where allegations of domestic abuse have been raised. I have represented clients who have raised the allegations and clients who are the subject of the allegations.

There was a landmark case a few months ago that says when it comes to allegations of domestic abuse you must look at the bigger picture. Previously if you were raising allegations, you would put together what was called a “Scott Schedule” this was simply a table that set out dates and incidents for the Judge to determine. The frustration with schedules being in practice they did not work where a parent assert that a pattern of controlling behaviour existed as a long-complicated history of abuse was often condensed into a few incidents for the court to determine.

Following the recent case, Judges are now encouraged to come up with a more holistic view which takes the form more of a narrative of the overall experience of being in a relationship together rather than whether a particular incident happened.





Changing your child’s name is an important decision which can feel quite challenging. Before a solicitor would be able t...
05/04/2021

Changing your child’s name is an important decision which can feel quite challenging. Before a solicitor would be able to answer the question “can I change my child's name?”, they must know whether your ex-partner has parental responsibility and if they do, whether they consent to the name change.

Who has parental responsibility?

◼️A mother automatically has parental responsibility for her child from birth.

◼️A father usually has parental responsibility if he’s either:
▫️married to the child’s mother
▫️listed on the birth certificate (after a certain date, depending on which part of the UK the child was born in)
▫️Parental Responsibility Agreement
▫️Court Order

If you have sole parental responsibility, you will be able to change your child’s name. You will still need to seek legal advice from a solicitor to make a formal deed to change their name.

In the event that the other parent with parental responsibility does not consent to the change of name, you will need to apply to Court for a Specific Issue Order to permit you to change the name of your child. The Court would then decide whether it was in your child’s best interests for the change of name to take place.

In most cases - before applying to court - you will need to demonstrate that you have attempted to mediate first.

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