06/09/2026
"Allow me to introduce my new boyfiend. Boyfriend, meet my ex-husband"
In Offrey v Offrey, 2026 ABKB 335, Justice Mandziuk ruled on the language of a parenting order clause governing how and when two children, aged seven and nine, could be introduced to a parent's new romantic partner.
At trial, both parties were agreeable to adding wording to restrict the introduction of new partners, but the parties did not agree on the parameters. Justice Mandziuk rejected the father's proposal to make introductions contingent on a parenting coordinator's recommendation, finding the parties' level of conflict didn't justify the added expense of a quasi-judicial determination.
He did, however, find it appropriate to require the introducing parent to first consult any psychologist already treating either child.
The judge also endorsed a six-month relationship minimum before any introduction could occur, and a requirement that the new partner meet the other parent first. The father's proposed nine-month waiting period was rejected as offering no clear additional benefit.
Ultimately, the court prioritize reduced conflict over added constraints. The judge's decision reinforced a key principle: while the parties share parenting responsibilities, they do not share their personal lives.
