10/05/2026
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY..... EVERY DAY!
On this Mother’s Day, we honour the strength, leadership, and resilience of mothers across the world.
Beyond their emotional and social roles, mothers navigate a wide range of contractual (legal) relationships that shape their rights, responsibilities, and long-term security.
In Botswana, these relationships are shaped by the country’s statutory and common law framework, including the Children’s Act, Employment Act, Deeds Registry Act, Trust Property, Marriage Act, Matrimonial Causes, other statutory instruments and general contract law.
As a mother in Botswana, you will typically encounter eight major categories of contractual relationships across your lifetime arising from family law, employment, property, finance, health, education, and estate planning.
These relationships carry some inherent risks. Your daily decisions and actions (legal, financial, and personal) within these relationships shape the future of your children as well as your own long-term security.
Understanding the contractual relationships that affect your life, and managing the associated risks is an act of personal empowerment and protection.
Below is a short survey of the contractual relationships in a mother’s lifetime and a few tips on management of some of the legal risks associated with each. The emphasis is more on mothers in general (and less on wives). Arguably the legal protection of mothers who are also wives arises automatically from their marital status.
1. FAMILY & PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY AGREEMENTS
These arise from parenthood, caregiving, and family formation, and include maintenance agreements, custody arrangements, parental plans, adoption, and customary family undertakings.
Always reduce maintenance arrangements to writing; keep proof of payments and communication; use parental plans to avoid disputes over access, holidays, and decision making; and document patterns of involvement or neglect.
2. MARRIAGE, COHABITATION & RELATIONSHIP CONTRACTS
These include civil marriages, customary marriages, ante nuptial contracts, cohabitation agreements, and divorce settlements.
Before entering or exiting these potentially life-long contracts, independently seek and obtain legal advice.
If unmarried but cohabiting, seek legal advice and consider signing a cohabitation agreement (if you are lucky, sign one with a clear exit clause).
Avoid contributing financially to property that is not registered in your name; keep receipts for household purchases; and understand that relationship status does not create automatic legal rights.
3. EMPLOYMENT & LABOUR CONTRACTS
In your working life, you might enter employment contracts (permanent, fixed‑term, or casual); enjoy maternity‑related contractual rights and protections; enter professional service contracts (if self‑employed or running a business); or be a member of a trade union or association.
Keep copies of employment contracts and HR policies; know your maternity leave rights; document workplace disputes; avoid resigning under pressure- seek legal advice; and if self-employed or into some association, always reduce business agreements to writing.
4. PROPERTY & HOUSING CONTRACTS
As a mother managing a household, you are likely to enter leases, mortgages, co ownership agreements, utility contracts, and construction agreements.
Ensure that leases are in your name or jointly signed. Do not build on land that you do not own or control; avoid verbal agreements with landlords or partners; and keep all utility accounts statements and receipts organised.
5. FINANCIAL & COMMERCIAL CONTRACTS
These include banking contracts; loan agreements; insurance contracts (life, funeral, medical aid, household and car insurance); mobile money agreements; and retail credit agreements with furniture stores and clothing accounts.
Never sign or stand surety for a partner that you are not legally tied to. Unless you are in a marriage, maintain separate bank accounts; build an emergency fund for you and your child(ren); and avoid taking loans for a household that is not quite yours.
6. HEALTH & MEDICAL CONTRACTS
These include medical aid membership, hospital admission agreements, consent to treatment and specialist health care contracts.
Ensure that you register yourself as the primary guardian for your children at clinics and schools; keep copies of medical records and medical aid cards; document any incidents of abuse or neglect; and have an emergency plan for your health and safety.
7. EDUCATION RELATED CONTRACTS
These include school enrolment contracts, transport agreements, extracurricular activity contracts, and boarding agreements.
Ensure that you are listed as the primary guardian for your children on school records; notify schools in writing about who is authorised to collect your child from school; keep fee statements and proof of payment; and avoid informal arrangements that can disrupt your child’s schooling.
8. ESTATE PLANNING & END OF LIFE INSTRUMENTS
As a mother, you might during your life have a will, trust deed, funeral policy, powers of attorney, and guardianship nomination for your children.
If have not already done so, draft a valid will naming a guardian for your minor children and a trustee for your estate. If you have property, savings or other investments, create a testamentary trust for the care of your minor children in case you pre-decease them.
Keep your funeral and insurance policies updated; store documents safely and ensure someone trustworthy knows where such documents are stored.
RISK MANAGEMENT FOR UNMARRIED MOTHERS
Unmarried mothers often face unique vulnerabilities because legal protections do not arise automatically from their relationships with the fathers of their children.
Protection can only come from documents, evidence, and enforceable agreements that they sign voluntarily (and optionally) with others.
KEY RISK MANAGEMENT PRINCIPLES
-If it is not written, it is not enforceable.
-Separate your finances from your partner’s.
-Never invest in property without documented rights.
-Control your child’s school and medical records.
-Plan for emergencies and long term guardianship of your children.
-Document everything-payments, communication, agreements, and incidents.
We celebrate you.
Take counsel. Obtain legal advice to map a safe, dignified, and empowered future where every day is Mother’s Day.
Happy Mother’s Day!
DISCLAIMER: This is not personalised legal advice. Book a consultation to receive customised legal advice.