19/10/2026
Your new partner is your executor and your children from your first marriage are your beneficiaries. What could go wrong?
Not necessarily anything. Plenty of partners do this well, but the executor controls the estate.
They collect the assets, pay the debts, and decide how and when things are distributed. When that person also benefits under the Will, or lives in the family home, their interests can pull in a different direction from the children's.
In a blended family, that's often where suspicion starts, even when nobody has done anything wrong.
Some families appoint two executors, one from each side, or an independent professional alongside the partner.
An executor has legal duties to every beneficiary, but when an estate takes months to finish, trust between the people involved matters as much as the paperwork.
Who would your children want in charge? π