20/04/2021
TUESDAY Q & A - YOU ASKED, WE ANSWERED
I no longer want certain family members in my life, more specifically my mother and sister, how can I legally write them off?
There is no legal mechanism that allows people to "divorce" or âwrite-offâ their parents or siblings.
If, however, you are the victim of domestic violence perpetrated by your mother and/or sister, you may apply for a Protection Order which aims at preventing the reoccurrence of domestic violence or sexual harassment by stating what conduct the alleged perpetrator must refrain from doing. As long as alleged perpetrator complies with the protection order, you will be safe. If the alleged perpetrator contravenes any stipulation of the Protection Order, she may be arrested. Once a Protection Order is granted, it is enforceable throughout the country.
You may apply to Court for an Interdict which is aimed at compelling or preventing specific person/people from doing some activities. There are four requirements, which need to be met for an Interdict (interim and/or final) to be granted:
⢠The applicant must have a clear (prima facie is the fancy legal term) legal right.
⢠The applicant must have a well-grounded basis for believing it will suffer irreparable harm if the interdict is not granted.
⢠Balance of convenience must favour the applicant. The Court has to weigh the potential prejudice to the applicant if the interdict is refused against the potential prejudice to the respondent if the interdict is granted. If the prejudice to the applicant is greater, the balance favours the applicant.
⢠There is no alternative remedy available to the applicant.
In our law there is no such thing as "writing off or signing away" a child. Maintenance by biological parents/adopted parents, is payable in terms of law, and cannot be agreed away. Parents will each always have a duty to support and maintain their children. Further, in terms of common your parents/siblings may receive maintenance from their children/siblings, if the parents/siblings have little or no income, and only if the children have the financial means to do so.
Should you be a minor, Section 28 of the Childrenâs Act 38 of 2005, provides for the termination, extension, suspension or restriction of parental responsibilities and rights. This provision caters for an application to be brought in the High Court where the Applicant would request the Court to grant an order either terminating or suspending the parental responsibilities and rights of the neglecting parent. The effect of an application for termination of parental responsibilities and rights will either wholly or partially deprive a person of their parental responsibilities and rights regarding a child meaning that person will no longer have any obligations to care for or maintain the child nor have any right to exercise contact with the child.
The following may also apply to Court:
⢠A co-holder of parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child;
⢠Any other person with sufficient interest in the protection, wellbeing, and development of the child;
⢠The child, acting with leave of the Court;
⢠A person acting in the childâs interest, with leave of the Court;
⢠A Family Advocate or the representative of any interested state organ
Should you pass away without leaving a valid Last Will and Testament, the rules of intestate succession shall apply to your estate, and in the event of you:
⢠not have a spouse or children, but are survived by both parents, your estate will be divided between the parents. Where only one of the parents of the deceased survived the deceased, half of the value of the estate will devolve upon the surviving parent, and the other half will be divided between pre-deceased parentâs descendants;
⢠being survived by descendants of your mother and father, half of your estate will devolve upon the descendants of the father and the other half upon the descendants of the mother;
⢠being survived by descendants of one parent only, such descendants will inherit the whole estate.
By drafting a Will, you can ensure that your mother and/or sister do not inherit from your estate.
Should you have any questions regarding above, please do not hesitate to contact our offices and schedule an appointment to discuss the issue.
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