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Experienced Divorce Mediator,Lawyer,divorcee& Strategist-guiding parties through the complexities of DIVORCE @ the intersection of Conflict Resolution, Legal Advocacy&Tailored Strategies is where fairness&amicable outcomes overlap=Consider it SETTLED!🤝🏻

20/05/2026

...and if she doesn't, they hopefully know who to call 🤙🏻😉

🖤Lizelle, Your favourite Negotiator

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There is no loneliness quite like lying next to someone who stopped choosing you long before the marriage ended.Some peo...
14/05/2026

There is no loneliness quite like lying next to someone who stopped choosing you long before the marriage ended.

Some people think divorce breaks people.

N O.

Living years in silence.
Begging for affection.
Pretending in front of the child(ren). Walking on eggshells in your own home.
Feeling emotionally abandoned while legally married.

That breaks people.

A failed marriage is not always two people screaming. Sometimes it’s two strangers sharing a roof while they silently disappear inside themselves.

And that is the kind of loneliness nobody posts about.

🖤Lizelle

11/05/2026

🚩
R E L A X.
That’s just your sign to stop litigating and start mediating. I believe...
with the right negotiation skills, even a red flag can eventually wave a white flag. 🏳️🤔
Because sometimes: “I’ll never agree!”
slowly becomes:
“Okay fine… I see the law. I see your point. Lets meet each other half way."

Ek weet jy weet hierdie… maar net ingeval jy dit vandag vergeet het... Jy is 'n Y S T E R: 👑🤍Hierdie is vir ...
10/05/2026

Ek weet jy weet hierdie… maar net ingeval jy dit vandag vergeet het...
Jy is 'n Y S T E R: 👑🤍

Hierdie is vir die mammas, enkelmammas & bonusmammas wat elke dag opdaag, al is hulle moeg, oorlaai, onseker of soms stukkend.

Hier is wat ek wens meer vroue geweet het:

Die meeste kinders is...
Soms ongeskik.
Raak stil sonder rede.
Gee eenwoord antwoorde.
Toets grense.
Raak emosioneel oor klein goed.
Vergelyk huise, reëls en ouers.
Trek hulleself terug in hul kamers.
Mis mense op vreemde tye.
En haal dikwels hul frustrasie uit op die veiligste persoon in die kamer...en soms… is daardie persoon J Y!

Ek wens meer enkelmamma’s het geweet:
Dat oorleef ook ‘n vorm van sukses is.
Dat jy nie perfek hoef te wees om ‘n ongelooflike ma te wees nie.
Dat die feit dat jy steeds opdaag, steeds probeer, steeds liefhet… is iets ongeloofliks.

En ek wens meer bonusmamma’s het geweet:

Dat liefde nie DNA nodig het om eg te wees nie.
Dat kinders van geskeide huise soms lojaliteitskonflik dra wat hulle self nie verstaan nie.
Dat weerstand nie altyd verwerping beteken nie.
Dat vertroue s t a d i g groei.
"It is not about YOU."
🤍 ...een Sondag dalk in hulle twintigs... gaan jy ook 'n ou whatsappie kry wat wys hulle het jou waarde gesien & gevoel maar tot dan kan jy net opdaag met liefde!

Ek wens meer Mammas het geweet:

Jy plant saadjies in stilte… wat eers jare later blom.
Die kinders sien dalk nie nou alles raak nie, maar eendag:
Sal hulle onthou wie hulle veilig laat voel het.
Wie opgedaag het.
Wie langs die sportveld was.
Wie gebly het.
Wie hard gewerk het om te voorsien.
Wie liefgehad het sonder waarborge.

En eendag gaan hulle verstaan hoeveel moed dit verg om ‘n kind groot te maak of om 'n bonusmams te wees wanneer die lewe nie volgens jou eie perfekte plan verloop het nie.

Aan elke enkelmamma en bonusmamma:

🤍Jy doen beter as wat jy d**k.
🤍Jou liefde maak saak.
🤍Jou opoffering maak saak.
🤍Jou teenwoordigheid maak saak.

Gelukkige Moedersdag aan die Gom-vroue wat met genade, deursettingsvermoë en ongelooflike liefde alles aan mekaar hou!

🖤Lizelle








09/05/2026

Loving myself first was and is
N E V E R S E L F I S H.
It is
S U R V I V A L

Healing post divorce should look like this ⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️

➡️ Iwill stop begging for love in places where I am shrinking.
➡️I will stop abandoning myself to keep others comfortable.
➡️I will learn that the relationship I have with myself sets the standard for every other relationship in my life.

So therefore my plan of action is this:

➡️I choose me.
➡️My peace.
➡️My healing.
➡️My boundaries.
➡️My growth.

And strangely enough…

the moment I start loving myself first,
I will stop accepting love that comes second-hand.

Choose yourself!
🖤Lizelle

04/05/2026

Vra solank jou vraag vir môreaand se LIVE. Dit gaan baie insiggewend wees.

Lizelle Stoltz van The Divorce Negotiator is 'n nie-praktiserende familiereg advokaat wat spesialiseer in mediasie tussen pare, die absolute reg en verantwoordelikheid van kinders na egskeiding en ouerskapplanne.

Sien julle môreaand!

02/05/2026

“Ek het geen inkomste of "Payslip" nie...so ek kan en gaan nie Onderhoud betaal nie.”

➡️Dis die oudste storie in die boek.
➡️ Die reg kyk nie net na wat jy verdien nie…Die reg kyk na wat jy KAN verdien, hoe jy leef, en wie jou finansieel dra.

Jy kan nie:
❌ werkloos kies
❌ kontant verdien
❌ deur ’n derde party onderhou word
…en dan d**k jy is vry van jou kind se onderhoud nie.

➡️ Die hof sien deur dit. Elke keer.
En wanneer dit gebeur:
⚖️ Word inkomste toegereken;
⚖️ finansies word oopgevlek
⚖️ en verantwoordelikheid word afgedwing!

Die realiteit?
Onderhoud is nie opsioneel nie. Dis ’n wetlike plig. Dis die kind se oorlewing!

As jy vasgevang is met ’n ouer wat nie betaal nie of stories verkoop...
➡️ jy het opsies.
➡️daar is maniere om dit reg te stel.

📩 WhatsApp my vir ’n konsultasie.
R1000 | 60 minute | Regte strategie.
Geen nonsens.
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↪️"Because futures are built around tables… not around excuses." L.S ↩️

Lekker naweek!
🖤Lizelle

01/05/2026

Today is not just about our Jobs but the most Important Jobtitle we carry...
P A R E N T • D A D • M O M

Because...Let's face it; the most important work you will ever do in your lifetime is not in boardrooms or offices, it is the work you put in between the walls of your home or two homes, in case of divorce.

Your true legacy and wealth is not determined by you bank balance but the balance deposited into your children's emosional accounts and how raise and send them out and into this world!

Divorce may end your mission as spouses BUT it never ends your calling and mission as parents, chosen by God, for your child!

H A P P Y W O R K E R ' S D A Y !

🖤Lizelle, your fav Negotiator

29/04/2026

Are you facing D I V O R C E ❓️
Right now, you have 2 choices:
1️⃣Prolong the fight
OR
2️⃣Take control of the outcome.

✔️Mediation is where decisions are made with clarity & fairness.
❌️Not in anger,
❌️Not in courtrooms, &
❌️Not by strangers who don’t have to live with the consequences.

↪️Protect your children.
↪️Protect your finances.
↪️Protect your emosional health.
↪️Protect your future.

➡️The strongest move in divorce isn’t to fight harder= it’s to resolve smarter‼️

📩 Reach out. Your way forward starts with one 60min conversation with

Lizelle, your preferred Negotiator,
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Hartbeespoort
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Monday 09:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00

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