Gabrielle Hartley

Gabrielle Hartley Gabrielle Hartley, Leading divorce attorney, and online mediator, founded The Better Apart Method to Contact Gabrielle Hartley, Esq. today! Call for details.

Gabrielle Hartley, Leading divorce attorney, and online mediator, founded The Better Apart Method to improve the divorce experience, no matter how messy. Serving the Bronx, Brooklyn, Manhattan, Queens, Staten Island and the Greater New York City area with peacemaking focused divorce and family law services. Including, but not limited to contested divorce, uncontested divorce, divorce mediation, ch

ild custody, child support / alimony, parenting plans / timesharing, guardianship, pre nups & post nups, post resolution modifications, paternity and more. Additional offices located in Boston, MA.

Just the three of us.
07/27/2026

Just the three of us.

This summer has given me time to reflect on how fortunate I am to do work I truly believe in.Recently, the American Arbi...
07/22/2026

This summer has given me time to reflect on how fortunate I am to do work I truly believe in.

Recently, the American Arbitration Association launched its first Family Mediation Panel as it celebrates its 100th year.

I had the privilege of helping build the panel from the ground up and of serving as one of its inaugural mediators.

Bringing the AAA’s long tradition of excellence in dispute resolution to families navigating divorce feels like an important step forward. Families deserve a process that reduces conflict, protects children, and helps create agreements that can stand the test of time.

I’m grateful to everyone who helped make this panel a reality, and I’m excited to be part of what’s ahead.

I always enjoy connecting with colleagues to talk about when mediation can make the greatest difference for families.

What a treat to see so many of my New York State family colleagues in real life. Gorgeous setting, great food and convos...
07/14/2026

What a treat to see so many of my New York State family colleagues in real life.

Gorgeous setting, great food and convos. Plus a rainbow.

Added bonus: finally met Morghan Richardson, Esq. - if you’re not already following go check out her profile for a little insight and fun.

Divorce coaches:One of the biggest challenges is helping clients move from emotion to decision making.That’s where Media...
06/17/2026

Divorce coaches:

One of the biggest challenges is helping clients move from emotion to decision making.

That’s where Mediator Gabby can help.

Mediator Gabby guides parents through the real conversations they need to have before mediation, including parenting schedules, holidays, communication, decision making, travel, expenses, and more.

Instead of arriving overwhelmed and unprepared, clients come to mediation with greater clarity, a better understanding of their options, and a stronger focus on their children.

Many coaches are finding that it helps structure their work with clients and makes mediation more productive.

If you’re a divorce coach and would like to explore how Mediator Gabby can support your practice, send me a message and I’ll show you how to try it.

Most people think parenting plans are about creating a document.The truth is they’re about helping families navigate som...
06/11/2026

Most people think parenting plans are about creating a document.

The truth is they’re about helping families navigate some of the most important decisions of their lives with greater clarity, less conflict, less confusion, and a stronger focus on the well-being of their children.

That’s the vision behind Mediator Gabby.

It was a tremendous honor to receive a Stevie Award from the American Business Awards last night.

What makes this recognition meaningful is not the technology itself. It’s the opportunity to help families prepare for difficult conversations, identify areas of agreement and disagreement, and make decisions that support their children long after the mediation process ends.

Mediator Gabby was built alongside mediators, family lawyers, parenting professionals, legal aid organizations, and parents who continue to shape its evolution.

Excited for what’s ahead and for the opportunity to help even more families move forward with clarity and confidence.

So many parenting plans break down because families are handed a document instead of a process.I loved talking with  on ...
05/18/2026

So many parenting plans break down because families are handed a document instead of a process.

I loved talking with on Divorce & Beyond about what actually helps parenting plans succeed after divorce.

Mediator Gabby was designed to support mediators and families before conflict escalates:
• Better preparation
• Better communication
• Better structure
• Better outcomes for children

Technology should not replace mediators.
It should help mediators do their best work.

If you are a mediator, divorce professional, or family law attorney curious about Mediator Gabby and Better Parenting Plan, send me a DM or reach out. I would love to connect. Link to book demo in comments.

This one is personal.Better Parenting Plan was recognized by the Stevie® Awards as Startup of the Year in Consumer Servi...
05/04/2026

This one is personal.
Better Parenting Plan was recognized by the Stevie® Awards as Startup of the Year in Consumer Service Industries.
But what matters to me isn’t the award.
It’s the work behind it.
I’ve spent years in and around mediation, watching how hard it is for families to make decisions during some of the most difficult moments of their lives.
Not because they don’t care.
Because the process often gives them very little structure when they need it most.
That’s what led to Mediator Gabby.
The goal was never to replace mediators.
It was to equip them.
To help bring clarity into complex conversations.
To reduce friction.
To support agreements that actually hold up over time.
This recognition is a signal that the field is evolving.
There is a better way to support families through conflict.
We’re building toward it.

Want to learn more? Let’s talk!

To a Happy & Healthy 2026!!!✨✨🍾
01/01/2026

To a Happy & Healthy 2026!!!✨✨🍾

What if child custody didn’t feel like a war?This week, I had the privilege of presenting Virtual Gabby and the Better P...
05/15/2025

What if child custody didn’t feel like a war?

This week, I had the privilege of presenting Virtual Gabby and the Better Parenting Plan at Stanford’s Future of Law event—and the response was incredible. The energy in the room confirmed what I’ve believed for years: we can transform conflict into resolution, and technology has a powerful role to play.

In my recent TEDx talk, I asked the audience to imagine a world where separating parents don’t feel lost in a sea of legal forms, fear, and frustration. Where the question isn't “Will I lose my voice in my child’s life?” but rather, “How can we move forward—together—for the sake of our kids?”

This is where Virtual Gabby steps in.

We’re building an AI-powered virtual mediator designed to help parents create clear, fair parenting agreements—quickly, affordably, and with dignity. It’s not about replacing lawyers or mediators. It’s about making solutions available to the millions of families who might otherwise be left behind.

Because justice shouldn’t depend on your ZIP code or your bank account. And peace of mind shouldn’t be a luxury.

This is just the beginning—and I couldn’t be more excited about what’s ahead.

💻👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 If you care about family justice, tech for good, or creating a healthier future for children, I’d love to connect.

Working hard can be so much fun.Grateful to be surrounded by this powerhouse team as we shape and share groundbreaking i...
04/03/2025

Working hard can be so much fun.
Grateful to be surrounded by this powerhouse team as we shape and share groundbreaking ideas that are set to influence the future of law—and far beyond.

What we’re each building is bold, thoughtful, and deeply needed. Can’t wait to reveal what’s next.

Next level lawyering!

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