08/11/2020
I am disappointed to hear about the verbal assault that took place at the school board meeting last night. As a community, I think it is important to talk about what happened. I have chaired public meetings that become very contentious, I did not like doing so. I have cast votes in meetings where I was the only person opposed, it is not a comfortable position to be in. I have sat in meetings where the tension and animosity were ubiquitous; I have questioned why I volunteer my time to endure this. And at times I have resigned.
Much of my life experience thus far has been in the realm of leadership, management, and public service. One of the mantras that I have picked up over the years is the saying “What you’re willing to accept will become the new standard.” As a member of this community, I refuse to accept the behavior of last nights’ school board meeting. Any attempt to justify or rationalize that kind of behavior is indefensible and shortsighted in my opinion.
People are more than the sum of one action, I firmly believe that. I live my life that way and raise my kids to understand that as an increasingly nuanced perspective. Yet all it takes is one action, especially in the public realm, for a lifetime of dedication to void it all. It is a burden that everyone in a position of public trust carries, and I believe they should. As community ambassadors, we hold ourselves to a higher standard and embrace a level of ethics and accountability that many do not embrace or seem to even understand. At least that is the way I approach it, with a bit nostalgia and touch idealistic.
I hope that level of self-accountability is recognized in this situation and the appropriate action is taken. If not, we as a community, need to decide if this is going to become our new standard. You know where I stand, and I hope some of you will join me.