08/25/2026
Your parents told you what they want. That's not the same as having a plan.
You and your siblings can remember different conversations differently, not from dishonesty. Time passes, things change, and people remember things differently. Their perception becomes their reality.
If you're trying to get your parents to actually plan, that's the case to make: telling you isn't the same as planning.
Verbal wishes create competing memories, not clarity. Here's what your family actually needs when you're not there to settle the disagreement.