20/09/2025
DEALING WITH SOUL TIES......!!!
Do you know S*XUAL SIN is one of the major silent killer of MANY DREAMS, UNENDING DEBTS and lack of FINANCIAL BREAKTHROUGH?
SOUL TIES are invisible bonds that wreck havoc in many relationships today.
S*xual activity is one of the most harmful activities on earth.
Every time we have S*x outside the confines of marriage we create deep rooted bonds with the other individual
That's why you left your boyfriend or Girlfriend got born again but from time to time he or she still visits for conjugal rights and you are helpless before him or her.
Every time s*xual activity (not necessarily pe*******on) takes place the brain produces a chemical called dopamine, it's called the feel good chemical but it binds two people together
A soul tie doesn't get broken by saying I do
A wedding ceremony is not enough to make your past s*xual sins to disappear.
Soul ties are the reasons why people don't move on. This is the reason you keep on recycling negative relationships even years down the road.
You are born again, but you still have hangovers from your past s*xual activities.
Man was created in three parts, body, soul and spirit :
The soul and spirit live in a tent called the body.
Soul is the part that holds the life principle. It's the seat of emotions, will and moral action.
1Peter 2:11, beloved I beg as pilgrims abstain from fleshly lust which war against the soul
When you have premarital s*x you share your soul with your partner.
The deepest soul tie is forged when people become one flesh.
It's called commingling of souls in the spiritual realm. When souls mingle spirits are transferred too.
These spiritual bonds are highly demonic. The devil gets a legal ground to frustrate you s*xually. The other party is free to enslave you emotionally.
When you have many s*xual partners the bonds graduate to spiritual bridges.
1Corinthians 6:16, or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For the two He says shall become one flesh.
Whenever s*xual sin happens you open your self to a curse.
The knitting of two souls can bring tremendous destruction.
God designed the universe to function with natural and spiritual laws that bring freedom when obeyed and bring bo***ge and destruction when broken or violated.
That pleasure you enjoy for five minutes can bring you a lifetime bo***ge.
The world takes premarital S*x very casually but I tell you it's a very serious affair in the spiritual realm. It's not as simple as the devil puts it.
Proverbs 5:20 for why should you my son be enraptured by an immoral woman and be embraced in the hands of a seductress?
Genesis 34:1-3, now Dinna the daughter of Leah, went out to see the daughters of the land and when shechem saw her he took her and lay with her and violated her, his soul was STRONGLY attached to Dinna...
So today you are praying for a good godly marriage the question is are you single in the first place?
Many people are single in the physical but polygamous in the spirit.
It's time for spiritual divorce!
SIGNS OF A LINGERING SOUL TIE
-Someone whose voice you hear in your head many years after you had s*x with them.
-Obsessive daytime or nighttime thoughts about someone.
-Dreaming or waking up thinking about your former s*x partner at regular basis.
-Dreaming having s*x with the person.
-The inability to forget the s*xual experience even now that you are born again. You still remember the details.
Confession of faith does not overrule history. If you are bound you need to pray for God to deliver you.
Haven't you seen anointed brothers and sisters who preach and prophesy powerfully but they cannot control their s*xual appetite. They even cry and confess after the act, they fast and go back to the same sin.
It's good to be a good student of history and prophecy. When you want finish a tree don't trim it uproot it by its roots
Do you come from a polygamous family? Break the generational curse, do you come from a broken home do the same
Ignorance is no defense. Joshua pronounced a curse upon Jericho, but sometimes later a man called Haiel who didn't know what Joshua had said decided to rebuild the cities of Jericho and he paid the price by loosing two of his sons. He didn't know history and he paid for it ignorantly. God had to raise Prophet Elisha to santify Jericho.
Joshua 6:26
I kings 16:34
If you find yourself struggling with the same issues including s*xual issues like your forefathers ask God to deliver you, it's a bo***ge
I pray for you that what finished your forefathers will not finish you in Jesus Name.
Soul ties should be broken because they represent unholy Union preventing the soul from enjoying the freedom that Jesus gave us.
They cause you to feel emotionally empty.
God will restore us. Flee away (don't run) from s*xual immorality. Don't abuse God's grace. Repentance means total change. When David sinned during repentance he told God, take away this heart and give me a new one. In other terms I turn away completely from sin
You might say God will always be there to forgive my question is one, will you always be here? Time is in the hands of God. Hell is real, don't allow a few minutes of pleasure cost you for eternity.
Bo***ge is not what binds you its what you are not willing to release to be free.
1.Acknowledge that you sinned
2.confess the sin and repent
3.break the soul tie
e. g, Lord Jesus I am sorry for fornicatting with Mark, I repent my sins
By the power of the blood of Jesus I break every unholy tie that exists between mark and I. I release my soul from his soul.
I reject any effect of our union that continues to bind us together. I forgive Mark in Jesus Name, Mark you are free from me
Any demonic spirits that were transferred to me during in*******se I reject you now, come out of me in Jesus Name. You will not have any effect in my future marriage
I shut any doorway of demonic access opened in my life by the ungodly soul tie or any other sort of s*xual sin. Jesus I ask you to seal the doorways by your precious blood.
Lord I now stand single in the spiritual realm, bless me with a partner that I may enjoy marriage. Help me to stay Holy for the sake of my eternity in Jesus Name
S*xual sins are many, lesbianism, be******ty, po*******hy, homos*xuality, phone s*x, S*x texting and all ungodly s*xual practices, but if you have ever had a s*xual activity with God's servant you need total repentance. That's the equivalent of getting into God's supermarket and stealing a litter of oil. It doesn't matter who was at fault, FLEE S*XUAL SIN, IT'S DEADLY
How can a young man stay pure
Psalm 119:11, your word have I hidden in my heart that I may not sin against you
Killing the flesh by feeding the spiritual man, fasting is key
Avoiding spiritual window shopping when looking for a spouse
1corinthians 6:18-20,Flee s*xual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body but he who commits s*xual immorality sins against his own body or do you not know that your is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you.........
Proverbs 6:32, whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding, he who does so destroys his own SOUL
1corinthians 6:9-10..... Do not be deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters nor adulterers nor homos*xuals nor sodomies...... Will inherent the Kingdom of God
I want us to conclude the topic on soul ties so that we move on to courtship.
I believe you took time to free yourself in the spirit. Prayer is very key to a believer
Those of you who got children out of wedlock, you need to do restitution (if you are a man), forgive even the unforgivable, break the soul ties and move on in a Godly way
God is holy and he has a standard, don't allow the world to give you their standard
What God hates, we hate it too. guard your heart zealously for out of it flows the issues of life
After breaking a soul tie go ahead and renounce every vow that you made.
Like I have heard sisters saying "oh I will never find another man like him"
"If it's not her I would rather be single. "who bewitched you Saints?
Proverbs 21:23,whoever guards his mouth and tongue keeps his SOUL from trouble
Final stage is destroying the gifts that act as a point of contact in the realm.
You are born again now, why are still keeping innerwares, cards etc etc that you got from Egypt. Becoming a new creature simply means becoming new, show us the fruits of your change
Now rededicate yourself body and soul to the LORD. e. g Lord Jesus receive me again, I belong to you, my whole being belongs to you. I need your grace not to sin in this manner again
Galatians 5:1 stand fast therfore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free and do not be entangled again with a YOKE OF BO***GE
Titus 2:11,for the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men teaching us to say NO TO ALL AND WORDLY LUSTS....
```S*XUAL IMMORALITY IS DEADLY```
--The truth about s*x must be told and preached in all churches worldwide.The reality is that people especially holiness preachers don't talk about (s*x) at all.
--Whenever (s*x) is mentioned, then people get offended and begin to murmur and make negative comments about it.
~~Yet those people are the very personalities living in one s*xual sin or
the other.
-There is no way any holiness preacher can
preach true holiness to God's satisfaction
without teaching the pew about their s*xuality, the careless use of s*x, and the dangers involved and assume all will be well.
--People need to be enlightened about the sin that has dominated the age.
~~The sin that has captured the youths in the church, the sin that has brought teenage pregnancies and abortions.
--There is something both the aged and the
infant do not know anything about. The church also has closed her eyes on this particular issue. Nobody wants to talk about it but it is very real.
--In case you are not aware my brethren, I want to tell you that:
S*XUAL IMMORALITY
Is the last bullet the kingdom of darkness has
thrown against the church of GOD, and the church is wounded very sore that there seems to be no cure or remedy.
-I want to make it so clear and not in jargons or vocabularies that, you cannot count the number of people who go to church and proclaim the NAME of GOD , that are still living in immorality. They may either be suffering from lust, ma********on, po*******hy, adultery, in**st, homos*xual, and lesbianism, so**my, be******ty and many more which time will fail me to mention.
--Hardly will you come across a young lady who has not been misused by 'so called boyfriends'.
And every guy is now dating because of s*x. *GOD is watching all those that are having s*x with people they haven't married.*
-It's a headache for GOD seeing his own created people perishing in a sin called s*xual
immorality.
-How many young men today in the
church can you count and point fingers at that
fornication has not pulled down?
-A pastor slept with his junior pastor's wife,
impregnated her, and used the name of GOD to defend himself that it was GOD who instructed him to do so.
-If (s*x) that is supposed to be between husband and wives only, is now between father and daughter in the church, do I need to tell you there is fire on the mountain??
-If (s*x) that is only legalized between a man
and his wife, is now between a guy and his girlfriend, do you need angels to come and sound the warning against s*xual immorality?
-If (s*x) that is a sacred thing in marriage has become a desecrated thing in dating, what else do you want before you prepare the way of the LORD??
★ Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all,
and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and
adulterers God will judge.
◆PASTOR, WHY ARE YOU Quiet???
--Cry aloud, spare not. And tell the house of Jacob their sins, and Israel their transgressions (Isaiah 58:1).
--Pastor why are you not crying aloud?! Why
are you so mute like ELI ??
◇Heaven is shedding tears over the perishing souls every day and you are there raising funds every Sunday to build bigger auditorium
(Ezek.18:23).
--You call your members for anointing services and prayer meetings without urging sin out of them.
--Some are living together with men that did not pay any dowry on them.
--Some commit abortions and cover it up.
--Some are le****ns and homos*xuals .
--What are you doing about that??
--Where has the WORD OF GOD that says "flee
fornication" gone to in your Bible?(1st
Cor.6:18).
-- From henceforth, if you don't take this
warning and start declaring war against this strange spirit that has taken over the church, you'll have questions to answer. (Acts.19:13-15).
--And to those who claim they love holiness messages with negligence to this particular truth about s*x have actually missed the mark.
◆AND YOU! CHURCH MEMBER
To be active in church and still be committing
immorality, GOD is watching you. (Heb.4:13).
--To be a child of GOD and still having a boyfriend or girlfriend indulging pre marital affairs, GOD is watching you.
--To be a choir member or youth leader and still be doing what the married are doing, if u like continue.
★ 2nd Corinthians 7:1 Having therefore these
promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.