Shared Parenting- The Pakistani Perspective

Shared Parenting- The Pakistani Perspective contains specific chapters dealing with family laws, child’s access management, PAS

28/08/2024

لَا تُضَارَّ وَالِدَةٌ بِوَلَدِهَا وَلَا مَوْلُودٌ لَّهُ بِوَلَدِهِ

"No mother shall be treated unfairly on account of her child, or father on account of his child." (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:233)

Lets we all commit to promote fairness, compassion, and harmony in family litigation. Let's work together to create a nurturing environment for all!

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26/08/2024

Book Review of Shared Parenting- The Pakistani Perspective

05/08/2024

Islamic Law (Sharia)
Islamic law is the conservative interpretation and application of the
primary sources by early Mushimjurists, such as Abu Hanifa and Imam Shafi'i.

The Qur'an is separated from this classical formulation of
Islamic law (into schools of law) by a process of legal development
lasting more than two centuries. During this period, the Qur'anic
norms underwent considerable dilution to the detriment of women
and children. It is common for Islamic law (interpretations of original) to be mistaken with Islam (original) itself. After the death of Muhammad, legal decisions were given by his 'successors', the first four caliphs, Abu Bakr, Umar, Uthman and Ali. These caliphs and learned jurists warned that Muslims must guard against upholding their interpretations, which should be considered wrong if the primary sources so indicate. They did not want their views to be followed blindly the way certain Ulama (religious authorities essentially responsible for the interpretation of Islamic law) seem to advocate. While these jurists considered their opinions as contextual and best suited for their own time and circumstances, today these opinions are given more weight than the original sources of Islam itself.

In South Africa, conservative Ulama, who presently regulate and administer Muslim Personal Law (MPL) , give these interpretations precedence over the primary sources themselves.

Apart from these two primary sources of Islam and of particular
interest to this paper, in so far as it might provide local Muslims with a tool to overcome conflicts in MPL, is a source called ijtihad (independent reasoning). Reasoned interpretation of the primary sources was allowed for four centuries after Muhammad's death.

The 'door of ijtihad' was formally closed in the tenth century. Closure meant that there was no further need to interpret the Qur'an and Sunna, and recourse could only be had to the interpretations of the earliest scholars, whose opinions were not subject to any alterations. Notwithstanding the spirit of equality implicit in Islam, closure rendered jurisprudence ineffective and unable to provide answers to emerging and contingent issues. This ended the classical period of Islam.

16/03/2024

As per my experience of the child custody jurisdiction so far, i have come to the conclusion that a non custodial parent is totally incapacitated during the periods of interim and final custody. He/she has no say in a child’s life, no access to the child’s records, be it educational, medical, dental, optical or extracurricular. He/she is allowed but not ensured less than 1% visitation against the custodian’s 99% time. He/she is made a beggar and he/she alone has to protect the already thin connection with the ward. Law in this case takes sides without pretense ,by dividing the power between two parents with a ratio of 1 against 99, which stands in total violation with saying of Holy Quran, “No mother should be harmed through her child and no father through his child”.•
and the basic reason for this engineered deprivation of the non custodial parent is the lack of proper training being extended to the Civil Judges, prior to their appointment as guardian / family judges. what do u say?

indeed!!
05/03/2024

indeed!!

 Aziz  our Manager at Karachi has presented Share Parenting to Feroz Khan as well as to Ma'am Syeda Aliza Sultan His Vie...
16/01/2024

Aziz our Manager at Karachi has presented Share Parenting to Feroz Khan as well as to Ma'am Syeda Aliza Sultan

His Views are enumerated below

Syeda Aliza Sultan vs Feroze Khan (family suit/ domestic violence)
Feroze khan (celebrity) vs Syeda aliza sultan (x-wife of celebrity/ Instagram influencer) (g&w, defamation suit).

“Success has many fathers, but failure is usually an orphan” 🙏

I had opportunity to meet and interactive with both of them as client & media relationship manager Child Custody Law Services in Pakistan. I found both of them caring parents and good humans and very reasonable indiviuals. Recent update that have is ice is melting gradually , time , circumstances and family courts - have played in effective role as well. If you see other celebrity separations you find them respectable and individuals moving in there life with respect, despite contracting second marriages they are good parents to children’s.

So what went wrong in subject cases, what madly they were fighting for, certainly not the children’s in my understanding but battle of ego. We as the responsible , most reputed and result oriented family law firm make sure our clients understand the difference between fighting egos of individuals fighting with mother of minor or fighting with father of minor children. Then fighting for one rights as father , mother or children’s rights. There is fine line & one should not cross it. Because in the process precious time of bonding with children is lost and it never return. Financial losses … mental health … physical health all can be improve or regain with individual efforts on self love & care. But these ego battles one lost the precious time that never return … psychological impact on minor and there mental health and children parenting issues becomes that challenging that one cannot properly understand them and comprehend the situation … it’s a “bemari”… children develope that and can not come out of it when children can understand what they are suffering and important will power to do some thing about them … they are children ☺️ brothers and sisters …. As father and mother imagine how challenging is mental health issue.

Even families that are not “broken families” … family where relationship are going through frictions … they to have a lot of challeges. Founder of our firm is urgueably the best family lawyer of . He has author a beautiful book on “shared parenting” … it’s second addition has both English and Urdu version with many improvements compare to first version. It has a society view , psychology, child psychology… family dynamic … laws and case laws. Important judgements of family cases, appeals , high court and Supreme Court judgements. The best part that I like about book & its author is his understanding of society , family system and psychology. Fahad Ahmad Siddiqi is my mentor and author of this book … psychology at times don’t work on people like me ☺️ my mentor use reverse psychology to improve my understanding of issues that I have faced 💗 my father who is doctor and serve in Pakistan army have train me on reverse psychology for years in very polite manner. My mentor sir fahad use it in different manner and help me mature a bit 🙃 but it’s genuine progress … psychology is abcd that one should know to understand essay and write essay in English … reverse psychology is that English essay that attract individuals and operations side of how society and individual operate.

kaha jata hay “joh officier apna garh nae sambhal sakta woh rank and position kia sambhaley gah “ promotion rukh jate hay agar family mein say kohi genuine complian kardey… garh toh ratan Tata (tata groups) k owner ney basaya he nae … shadi nae ki … aur tata family hay … Amazon founder and former world number 1 rich ki shadi bhi nakam ho g*e … bill gates ki bhi ☺️ it’s not that the temporary failure with relationships is big issue … inability to deal with failures is always a big issue in any context. There is always opportunity to bounce back in relationships then assuming and proving relationships to be permanent failure in one life 💗

As a baby step what one can do is to take owner ship of one failures … if you don’t take ownership of your failure and shine with ability to handle them in life … nobody would take ownership of your failure … failure is orphan … I am blessed with lovely fathers … mentors … friends … family … social circle … I am grateful to Allah swt ☺️ but with my failure I am a orphan … I have no father ☺️ bus upar Allah aur neechay mein… meri ownership nae hoge toh is limited life mein toh masley hein nah ?

03/12/2023

Fahad Ahmad Siddiqi on issues related to child custody litigation in Pakistan
An old interview aired on Morning Show Jeo Pakistan at Neo News Tv Network

Our book (Shared Parenting - The Pakistani Perspective)  authored by Sir Fahad Ahmad Siddiqi with Urdu Translation by Si...
03/12/2023

Our book (Shared Parenting - The Pakistani Perspective) authored by Sir Fahad Ahmad Siddiqi with Urdu Translation by Sir Junaid Iqbal shall be available at
Muneeb Law Book House from Wednesday 06/12, in Sha Allah
In this regard feel free to approach Muhammad Khurram bhai
It is a 481(English Version +198Urdu Translation) 679 paged book.

Me & My Father, Qadeer Ahmad Siddiqi ASC (Late) May Allah be pleased with him and bless him eternal peace and highest of...
23/11/2023

Me & My Father, Qadeer Ahmad Siddiqi ASC (Late)
May Allah be pleased with him and bless him eternal peace and highest of abode in Jannat al Firdos, and may help me do acts that could form basis of Sadqa-a-Jaria for him!
Ameen

21/11/2023

شکر الحمدللہ رب العالمین

Address

Fahad Ahmad Siddiqi , Advocate High Court , Qadeer Ahmad Siddiqi Law Associates, &, Child Custody Law Services In Pakistan , Ground Floor, Siddiqi Plaza, 7/Turner Road, , Opposite Lahore High Court
Lahore
54000

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