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30/09/2025

13/08/2025

BAD HABITS YOU MUST AVOID IN CHURCH AS FROM NOW

The bible says "Those worshipping God must worship him in spirit and in Truth".

Worshipping God in spirit and in Truth means working in accordance to God ordinances.

As a Christian, there are habits you must avoid in Church. Some habits can barrier one from receiving God's blessings.
Reason you see some Christians going to church without nothing to show for it. Some habits can hinder one from receiving blessings.

BAD HABITS YOU MUST AVOID IN CHURCH AS FROM NOW

1. Constant lateness to church services and meetings. It proves that your love for God and the things of the Kingdom has grown cold. Wake up before it is too late.

2. Refusing to sit where the ushers direct you to sit, it's a sign of pride. Stop it.

3. Always running out to pick calls with your phone ringing out so loud. Switch off or mute your phone as soon you get to church.

4. Receiving calls repeatedly during every church services. It shows where your heart, your values and priorities are. Stop it.

5. Chewing gum or sleeping in church during sermon. Remember the church is neither a cinema hall nor a hotel. Please show reverence to your maker.

6. Sitting down during prayer or praise/worship session without any medical or health reasons. This makes you look very odd and unspiritual. Stop it.

7. Always looking at the church clock or your wrist watch during church hours insinuating that church should close. Please stop it.

8. Chatting and playing games on your phone during church service. It shows you are not spiritual. Please stop it.

9. Always leaving the church before closure for no particular appointment, making others who choose to stay till the end of service feel they don't know what to do with their time. Stop it.

10. Gathering outside the church with other members to gossip or discuss football and politics while service is going on. Stop it!

11. Wearing indecent dress to church.

12. Murmuring each time people are asked to raise funds for church projects.

13. Telling other members about the pastor's weaknesses.

14. Moving some members secretly to another church/prophet.

15. Misusing the church funds.

16. Sleeping in the church during sermon.

17. Sleeping with a fellow church member just for fun and no seriousness for marriage.

Beloved in christ, kindly try to lead by example from now henceforth with good character and attitude.

01/02/2025

*STOP FORMING COMMITTEE OF FRIENDS FOR THE BURIAL OF YOUR FRIEND📌.*
*👉 Form a committee of friends to help him get a job to do.*
*👉 Form a committee of friends to help him establish his business.*
*👉 Form a committee of friends to change his status for good.*
*👉 How can your committee of friends raise 5-10million Naira for burial but cannot raise 500 thousand Naira to help a friend establish?.*
*👉 Let's build ourselves as friends and brothers because a tree cannot make a forest...*

*GOD BLESS YOU AS YOU HELP A FRIEND AT THE POINT OF NEED🔎🙏🔍*.
Hope You Hear Me Clearly 😎😁😎 ?

07/01/2025

If you chose to stay in Nigeria in 2025, l advise you do these:

1). Watch and listen more to NTA and other local news channels. They help you to know this country beyond the darker hue of social media; and that knowledge may help you make dispassionate and objective financial, economic and political decisions. Nigeria is a beautiful and prospering nation. NTA would give you the right lenses to see unexplored markets, and the local radios would make you hear about hidden opportunities in far flung cities and big markets. Too much of Rufai Oseni would make you negative and cynical. Plenty money and opportunities are in this country. Believe me.

2). Grow your vegetables and raise your proteins as much as practicable. 5 egg laying chickens, a few pullets, and 2 goats wandering around your house would support your proteins needs and hedge you against further food inflation. You could even do some sack farming. It is criminal to spend this much on foods. Home Agriculture helps to conserve funds.

3). If you haven't, please join a co-op, investment club or whatsapp group, and don't hesitate to invest in the Nigerian Stock Exchange Market (and or the US Stocks if you are fortunate to have a good mentor). For the past 20 months or so, the Nigerian Exchange Market has literally, without noise been printing paper money for investors. Some stocks have returned 700% within 24 months. It has turned bland folks near us to multimillionaires while we shout ourselves hoarse about Dele Farotimi. Again, get a good stockbroker, accountant, or experienced lawyer to guide you in the market. It's a Tinubu Bull, and it doesn't look the music would stop soon.

4). Avoid fake prophets and reduce your expectations on politicians. The two are identical twins from same chromosome. They would promise you what God has not said and push you to fall into the pit of fear, disappointment and depression. Stay in private prayer with your God and don't turn any man to a god. God does not love that prophet more than you. And that politician friend is not as buoyant as you think. He too is afraid of efcc. Stop laying your burdens on him.

5). If you are above 40 and you graduated more than 15 years ago, in 2025, go back to school! It's fun. It's exhilarating! You would feel younger again. About 10 years ago I had a 40 year old consultant pediatrician as a friend - mate who came back to study law. Riding, studying, laughing together with him was fun. A 65+ high chief won the best dressed law student in my class/set. He wore original Gucci and rode a powerful ML. The girls preferred to talk to him than the 23 year old male undergraduates. That's part of the benefits. 😎

Go study a new bachelor degree. Do French, Fine Arts, Economics, Arabic Studies, Theology, Data Science, Law, Philosophy, History. Don't listen to Reno Omokri rants about these courses. He doesn't know all things. Don't even do it to advance a career. Do it for the fun out of it. At 40+ you have an advantage: you wouldn't soak garri to lectures, rather, you'll walk from the comfort of a hotel to classes because you are now in a better financial position than you were as a 19-year old when you first took a degree. And you are too big to be s*xually or emotionally molested by any lecturer now. Since you probably don't even need the certificate to get a job, not likely you would carry expo during exams. 😎

6). Keep fit. Walk 8,000 steps everyday. Shed weight. Enjoy the sun.

Happy New Year...

Otunba ( Dr) Akingbade Olufemi.

21/09/2024

Thanks to my amazing Daddy in the Lord, my pastors, brethren, friends and family for making my birthday so unforgettable. Your love and support mean everything to me. You're the reason I laugh always 😂😂😂
Ihedika unu akokwalam, Chukwugozirem unu nine na aha Jisos 🙏

03/07/2024

I remember a lady whose husband brought his mistress into their matrimonial home with his wife still there.

As usual, she was advised to stay put as the legally married wife, even though the mistress had a son too.

This mistress was the kind of woman who believed to become the first she had to eliminate all her competitors which were the children of her rival.

The friends of this woman told her to fight for her position.

Only one of her friends told her to take her children and leave to a safe place because this mistress was not pretending about her intentions to get rid of her children.

She said to everyone's hearing that she must be number 1 and would do anything to become number 1.

The wife was always on her toes about what her young children ate or drank.

She couldn't leave them at home like she used to.

When she was at home with them she never let them out of her sight for fear of the other woman harming them.

The lady asked her how long she'd live like that.

The voice of her other friends was the loudest but the lone friend's small still voice continued to play in the background.

Finally, she decided to take her children and leave for her sanity.

One week after she left the son of the mistress found a water bottle with water somewhere in the house and drank it and began complaining about stomach pain.

It was the water bottle of the youngest child of the wife.

They left it behind.

No one knows when it was laced with a poisoned substance but the child passed away in the hospital.

The mistress accused the wife of eliminating her son.

She called her baby Daddy who called his wife and accused her.

If not for CCTV in that house the wife would have been charged with taking a life.

It was from CCTV footage that the mistress was seen more than once attempting to put substances in what the children of the wife ate or drank.

She succeeded with that water bottle belonging to the youngest child but they left it behind probably because they couldn't find it where she left it.

Unfortunately, her innocent child became the victim.

Of course, her relationship with her late son's Father went up in flames and she faced the full wrath of the law.

Most times I read comments about situations like this online and marvel at how many people think you must fight for your place or position still under the same roof.

Even Mary and Joseph had to take Jesus to a safe place until it was safe to return.

Yesterday in children's class the topic was about the birth of Jesus and Herod's plot to eliminate him after he found out about him from the wise men.

The part that struck me is Mary escaping to Egypt with Baby Jesus and Joseph leaving at night after Herod ordered the elimination of children from two years below.

I began to wonder why they left when Jesus was the son of God.

Couldn't they just stay there and fight for their rights?🙄

I also wondered why they had to return after the passing of Herod.

Today people whose lives are at risk are advised to stay put and not move.

"Don't leave your home for another woman to occupy".🙄

The woman would remain in an environment where no one should remain all in the name of fighting for a position she lost decades ago.

In the process, she'll put the children at risk.

My opinion on infidelity is clear but if someone brings in another woman to a home you share and you feel unsafe please leave it you can.

The lives of your children are very important.

Many people are desperate and are willing to do anything.

He who fights and runs away lives to fight another day.

A living dog is better than a dead lion.

If conditions are unfavourable take a break and give some space, especially for your children's sake.

Have you ever seen children growing up in an environment of strife?

Have you seen how they act?

They are always afraid.

They are never free to be children, especially at home.

It's not fair to them.

It's not good for you too.

It may seem like the end of the world but when you experience true peace you'll never want to return to an environment of strife anymore.

Do what is best for you and your children.

© Treasure Ezuruike

Uzoamaka TV

20/11/2023

*Assuming* after dancing and rejoicing in your new mansion last night, you woke up this morning to rush and catch up with your daily activities as you are doing right now, and you saw your body still lying helplessly on the bed. You were shocked, You tried to pick up your iphone 6 to call your (Rev) pastor or relatives and you couldn't pick it up. You tried opening your wardrobe to pick some money you hid there and couldn't. You started crying but no one heard you. You try touching the gate to go out, but u just went right through it. You went outside and your house mates were chatting, but you were not recognised. After some minutes, you saw your house neighbours coming out of your room with a severe cry, hitting their hands on your brand new Range Rover Jeep.

All you could hear them saying is *"HE IS GONE"* or *"SHE IS GONE"* You stood there watching them cry their hearts out in pain. So you asked yourself *WHERE EXACTLY AM I GOING?*
Your spirit started crying bitterly, because you were not prepared to start that journey so soon. BRETHREN where exactly do you think you are going if you stop breathing right now?. *Are you aware of your final destination?*
Remember your creator now because we have a place to go. So start preparing.

04/11/2023

Single Older Ladies Are Big Market To False Prophets So Here Is My Letter ✉ To Single Ladies....
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Sisters,
Being single is not a spiritual problem.
Let me shock you...
Do you know that Jesus was surrounded by older single ladies? 🤔. Mary Magdalene, Martha etc were all single ladies.
Not once did he pray for them to get married. Not once did he cast out spiritual husbands from them.
Not once did he make them feel less for been single.
Because Jesus knew that marriage is not spiritual.
Desiring to get married is beautiful. It's a desire to be committed in a relationship. But don't become so desperate to get married that you start running after false prophets.

No uncle in the village is stopping you from getting married. You just haven't met a man who is serious enough to stand with you against all odds.

Some of you have also been dating boys. Boys hate commitment. Boys don't get married. Marriage is for MEN. A male can be 45 years old but still a boy. I always say that I became a man when my mates were still boys. Manhood is a function of the mind, not age. You can't be dating a spiritual son to a papa who can't make his own decisions and expect to make a husband out of a slave.

As far as you date boys and religious slaves, you will never get married. Take this to the bank.

Who is a boy? A male who is excited about s*x but scared about responsibilities. A boy is anyone whose decisions are controlled by another man.

Who is a man? A man is a male who discusses responsibilities, makes his own decisions, plans the future, excited about building a home with you and yet still good in bed ☺.

Sister, dump your 'Boy-friend'... He is stopping you from meeting your man.

Let me throw this challenge to boys.... If you don't want to be dumped, please grow up. Be a man. Stop running away from responsibility.

Do you want to get married? Check who you are dating. You can't date a boy and marry a man. If you are dating a papa's son, you better be loved by the papa because if your guy's spiritual papa tells him to leave you, he will cast you out of his life like a demon.

Marriage shouldn't be a prayer point if you understand this post.

Maranatha.

Cc. Charles Awuzie

09/09/2023

Have a wonderful weekend 🙏

30/07/2023

BITTER TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE

In marriage there are days you wish you had remained single. There are moments you look at your spouse and wonder “what was I thinking when I married her/him?” There are times you wish you had married someone different. There are times when you feel that divorce is the only option. There are instances you feel betrayed beyond recovery. There are times you feel that your love is being taken for granted.

You are not alone. The truth is that every marriage has its fair share of difficult moments. Every marriage goes through rough times. Every husband & every wife experiences perplexing moments. Remember it's the rough surfaces that sharpen the best. Rough times are meant to build your marriage; not break it.

The beauty of marriage is in realizing that difficult seasons are temporary moments. Straight roads don’t make experienced drivers. Keep on, moving on!

You are not alone

We have all been there

*Move on*
*Better days ahead*