12/05/2026
We have lived together for 10 years…
Does that automatically make us husband and wife under Nigerian law?
Many couples live together without doing:
- traditional marriage,
- court marriage,
or
- religious marriage.
Some even have children together and build properties together.
But here is the big question:
Does cohabitation alone give full marital rights under Nigerian law?
Cohabitation simply means:
A man and woman living together like husband and wife without being legally married.
Under Nigerian law, simply living together for many years does not automatically become a valid marriage.
So saying:
“we have stayed together for 15 years,”
or
“everybody knows us as husband and wife”…
…does not always give the same legal protection as lawful marriage.
If no valid marriage exists:
👉 one partner may struggle to claim inheritance,
👉 property rights may become difficult,
👉 and separation can create serious legal disputes.
Especially where:
- properties were bought in one person’s name,
- there is no documentation,
- or families become involved after death.
WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?
Children born outside marriage still have rights under Nigerian law.
A child does NOT become illegal because the parents were not married.
Issues like:
👉 custody,
👉 maintenance, and
👉 welfare of the child
can still be decided by law.
Think about this…
If two unmarried people live together for 20 years and one partner dies suddenly…
Should the surviving partner automatically have full inheritance rights?
What do you think? 👇
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