25/02/2026
JOIN ME TOMORROW ON Jordan105.5 FM on MEN'S Planet Show On Radio to discuss this burning issue.
I don’t know who disvirgined me. And the painful truth is that this is the story of many male children.
I was very young. Too young to understand what was happening. Too young to resist. Today, I remember faces, voices, moments… but not the exact person who took something from me that I can never get back.
Some older girls would call me to play. They treated it like a game. They carried me, laughed with me, made me feel special. I did not know I was being used. I did not know my innocence was being taken piece by piece.
And this is the part people don’t want to hear: my body eventually responded. I became confused. Curious. There was a feeling I did not understand, and because no one explained anything to me, I thought it was normal. That confusion is one of the cruelest parts of abuse. It makes the victim feel complicit in their own harm.
I remember their names. I remember their faces. I know who they are. But I don’t know who it was that I lost my virginity to. That is how blurred and chaotic those years were.
The last time I saw one of them, the look in her eyes was not remorse. It was hunger. As if, given the chance, she would have done it all over again.
I love Simi, but seeing those tweets reopened wounds and reminded me of stories I have only shared with close friends. When men finally begin to tell their stories, many people will realize that this problem is not about gender. It is about paedos. They exist on both sides.
I will probably never understand why a grown up would look at a child or a 13 or 16 year old teenager and feel lustful towards them. That’s the worse disease to have.
Please protect your daughters.
But please, pay attention to your sons too.
Boys are not invincible. Boys are not immune. Boys can be violated, confused, and broken in silence.
I don’t know what was going through Simi’s mind when she made those tweets, but they are deeply disturbing.
Imagine if a man had said the same things. The outrage would have been immediate and overwhelming by online witches who are constantly seeking for opportunities to disparage the decency of every man. Yet when boys speak about abuse, the world often shrugs, laughs, or looks away.
If we truly want to fight paedos, we must stop treating one gender as permanent victims and the other as permanent predators. Abuse is abuse. Evil is evil. A child is a child.
Focus on the act. Condemn it. Protect every child.
-KAA
Me: Nothing to add.
I totally agree with this submission 🙌