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13/12/2022

QUARRELLING/FIGHTING BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE IS NOT GOOD
{Julius A. Awoniyi}

Various things both positive and negative may want to lead to misunderstanding between a marital duo, you are the ones to handle it carefully not to degenerate into quarrelling. Why? Because:

1. Quarrelling/fighting makes the Trinity to leave you and you become empty sinners!

2. Quarrelling/fighting opens the door to spiritual attack!

3. Quarrelling/fighting reduces your love for each other.

4. Quarrelling/fighting reduces your honour before the neighbours hearing your voices.

5. Quarrelling/fighting is an evil lesson before the children: it affects their future homes.

6. Fighting/quarrelling makes the duo to stand in doubt of each other long after the quarrelling has been settled.

7. Fighting/quarrelling brings demotion in the spiritual realm of the individuals involved and the family as a whole.

8. Quarrelling/fighting reduces individual and family progress/success.

9. Fighting/quarrelling kills your joy, enthusiasm and zeal to fulfil goals, ambitions, plans and wishes!

10. Fighting/quarrelling, if not consciously checked/cautioned now can continue till old age and no enjoyment of each other will be experienced, no legacy is left for the coming generation.

11. Quarrelling could lead to physical fight and physical fight could lead to injury or death!

12. Quarrelling/fighting, if continued or not well settled till the moment of death or rapture could lead the victim to inheriting Hell Fire eternally!

Husbands and wives reading this, several things per time may want to lead to quarrelling/fighting but before you fight; calm and sit down, think, meditate and be sober that after fighting, "what you gain is worse than nothing but what you lose is everything!"

STOP FIGHTING/QUARRELLING RATHER DEEPEN YOUR LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP FOR EACH OTHER.

Shalom!

23/11/2022

[11/23, 10:11] Julius A. Awoniyi: *THE MARRIED*

There are so many married people in our midst, please let us genuinely love and take care of our spouses.
[11/23, 10:13] Julius A. Awoniyi: Love your spouse just the way he/she is.

Remember, no exchange; that is your permanent portion on the Earth.

Therefore, delight in him or her and stop envisaging another person as a better spouse.
[11/23, 10:23] Julius A. Awoniyi: Stop arguing on small matters: why is my meat small?, you don't respect me in this house! You aren't good in the bed! You don't care for me.

Don't touch my bible. This is my hymn book, don't take it to church again.

You look ugly during pregnancy, when your parent came to greet us, you neglected me and gave them attention, this portion of the room is mine, don't reach there etc.

*All the above are killers of loving relationship. STOP IT AND APPRECIATE THAT MAN/WOMAN.*

She/he is your permanent portion!

Ecclesiastes 9:9
"Live joyfully with the wife (or the husband) whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: *for that is thy portion in this life,* and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun."

{Emphasis, mine}.
[11/23, 10:34] Julius A. Awoniyi: He/she is too dark 🌑 or he/she's looking like an albino!

He/she's too tall, thin, slender, short, fat, cannot pronounce well, short man devil!

Everything about him/her is too big/too small!

I don't like his/her teeth colour, he/she walks awkwardly, he/she's not good in English, he/she did not go to school, he/she's only good at home but not presentable at social functions and occasions! 😱

Stop all these complaints!

For God's sake, DIDN'T YOU SEE/KNOW ALL THESE THINGS BEFORE YOU SAID, *"YES, I DO"* BEFORE THE MINISTER THAT DAY?

What you can't change, why are you stressed about it?

Please allow love to reign.

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