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01/04/2026

Being a man and going along to Andys Man Club Bury Saint Edmunds this really hit home.
Abuse is not about gender.
When is society going to stop talking about women and girls.
Men and boys have issues as well and in society it seems to be getting worse and worse.
It's time we started respecting each other.###

It's time to change the narrative!

Join us!

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01/04/2026

Its time to change the family courts, cafcass and child maintenance.

It's time for women, children and men to feel safe.

It's time that hardwork pays off.

The family unit is being destroyed by the government.

What parent wants to bring their children up on benefits.

As a parent we want our children to have a life free from benefits and a life that they can truly enjoy.

Cut taxes and the family unit has much more chance of staying together.

We need to make this country great again for our children and great grandchildren.

Rupert Lowe and Restore Britain are our best hope .

28 likes, 3 comments. “For me I have watched this country slowly fall to bits for far to long. My group has always been about the family courts, cafcass and how its ripping families apart. But this government and many governments before this are destroying our families and society. The last year o...

31/03/2026

All most parents want is for their child to be happy with whoever they are with.###

People often confuse parental alienation with estrangement, but they are not the same thing.

Estrangement usually happens when a child or adult child sets boundaries because of how they were treated.
It comes from their own experiences, memories, and decisions.

Parental alienation is different.

Parental alienation happens when a child is influenced, pressured, or manipulated into rejecting one parent — not because of their own experiences, but because of what they are told, what they hear, and what they feel they are not allowed to feel.

Estrangement says:
“I’m stepping away because this relationship hurt me.”

Alienation says:
“You shouldn’t love that parent.”
“You don’t need that parent.”
“That parent doesn’t love you.”
“That parent is the problem.”

Estrangement comes from the child’s experience.

Alienation comes from someone else controlling the child’s perception.

They are not the same thing,
but they are very often confused.

💙 The Erased Parent
Exposing Truth after Silence

31/03/2026

We all go through hard times in life and it was lovely to see Andys Man Club coming together with Men walking and talking for a charity night at Bury Bowl Ltd.

Let's make Nathan an Internet star because he certain brought lots of smiles to our charity night.

Now that's how to get a strike.

31/03/2026

Us men don't tend to talk as much as we should.
Divorce, not seeing your kids are all heartbreaking moments in our lives that we have to deal with.

Domestic abuse is on the increase and its not always about women, us men suffer as well.

If your a bloke don't be scared to speak out.

Your not alone and yes men do get abused.

The family courts and cafcass need to understand a woman can be just as abusive as a man.

Safeguarding can only be done if the courts are evidence based.

After 10 years of going through the family courts I have witnessed how the system works or should I say doesn't work.

The word abuse is used to stop the other parent seeing their child more often then you think.

Lies false allegations it's sick and twisted.

But what its also doing is leaving real victims of abuse both women and men in life changing situations.

The courts taking far to long to protect the real victims and Safeguard our children.

The only way this will ever change is if we continue to speak up.

Change needs to happen and fast.

30/03/2026

Until the courts are evidence based then nothing will ever change and probably get worse before it gets better.

Real abuse victims should be protected at the earliest possible opportunity.

The trouble is a lot of people are using the word abuse to stop the other other parent seeing a child.

As a society we have to stand up and speak out about what is really going on.

Sir Andrew McFarlane welcomes the government backing for the change, saying it will turn the old approach "on its head".