01/02/2026
Many bereaved women can face a shock to their system when they have to take control of their finances following the death of a husband or partner.
Such women can suddenly face sensitive matters that involve:
- their children and stepchildren
- their grandchildren and stepchildren
- their assets in the UK and abroad
- the possibility of their in-laws making unfounded claims against their estate.
One such woman was a client of mine. She was retired, a (step)mother and (step)grandmother, owned property and other assets, yet ...
She had never made a .
This is not uncommon ...
She had buried her head in the sand following the death of her husband -
When her husband was alive, she hadn't had to concern herself much with the family finances - her husband had overseen most of their financial affairs.
So in addition to grappling with her husband's death, my client also had to adjust to being completely responsible for her finances for the first time ... in decades ... while she was in her late sixties.
It wasn't an easy shift.
Understandably, she was apprehensive about receiving Wills and advice, despite being aware of its importance.
However, she was grateful that she did take the step to get her affairs in order. It was just what was needed:
- legal advice provided in clear terms and plain English
- explained
- non judgmental listening, and more.
After making a valid Will and , my client commented that the experience was nothing like she had expected, it was so much easier than she thought it would be.
Speaking to a professional, who is patient, understanding and kind, can make all the difference when it come to getting your affairs in order.
Send me a DM if you would like to make your Will.
Rachel
