04/04/2025
Absent parents pay tax on the money they pay under the child maintenance service schemes despite gaining no personal benefit from those payments and regardless of whether they actually get to see their children.
It's a position I have always felt was unfair and I'd like to see a policy change that allows these payments to be offset against the absent parent's income tax calculation.
If you feel the same please use the letter below to send to your MP.
[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[Postcode]
[Email Address]
[Date]
[Name of MP]
House of Commons
London
SW1A 0AA
Dear [Name of MP],
Re: Proposal for Tax Relief on Child Maintenance Payments for Non-Resident Parents
I am writing to you as a constituent to raise a matter of concern regarding the tax treatment of child maintenance payments made by non-resident parents. I believe the current policy is outdated, unfair, and places an undue financial burden on individuals who are fulfilling a legal obligation to support their children, without receiving any personal benefit from those payments.
Under current UK tax law, child maintenance must be paid out of a parentโs post-tax income. There is no scope to deduct these payments from gross income or to claim any form of tax relief. As a result, non-resident parents may face a double financial disadvantage โ paying income tax on money that is then used solely to support a child they do not live with, and receiving no personal or financial benefit from that expenditure.
This approach is inconsistent with other areas of tax policy, where personal or household costs are sometimes recognised โ such as in relation to dependents, spouses, or childcare. Moreover, it risks discouraging voluntary compliance with child maintenance arrangements and imposes disproportionate hardship on parents who are often already under financial pressure.
Proposal:
I respectfully propose that Parliament consider introducing a form of tax deduction or relief for child maintenance payments, either:
As a deduction from gross income for tax purposes, or
As a tax credit similar to childcare support mechanisms.
This would recognise the public interest in ensuring children are properly supported, while also treating non-resident parents fairly and equitably in the tax system. I also suggest that HMRC consult on this issue with affected parents and family law practitioners.
I understand that tax law is complex and politically sensitive, but I believe this issue deserves attention โ particularly in light of rising living costs and the importance of promoting responsible parenting across both resident and non-resident households.
I would be very grateful if you would raise this matter with the Treasury or the Chancellor, or support a debate or inquiry into the matter.
Thank you for your time and representation. I would welcome your views and any update you can provide.
Yours sincerely,
[Your Full Name]