03/01/2026
Many of us have been there and many of us are still there yet this is one topic we struggle with because it is one topic that is difficult to admit.
I mean, how do you even admit that you have feelings, sometimes very strongly s*xual in nature for someone, someone not your spouse?
Unfortunately, this very fear is what means people keep in inside and it gets worse until mistakes are made and many action the s*x.
What starts out as a one off case then becomes an addiction. It keeps getting stronger without us knowing until we develop a sense of entitlement and want more than what exists. That’s when it begins to unravel.
Such is the strength of this that you’d find yourself willing to make crazy moves and risks without caring. It may begin as a more hidden meet in hidden locations but then you get bolder and more reckless showing up in you car, being in the car of the other, office and even houses.
It all feels right, the emotions even though deep down we know it shouldn’t be. ‘Crazy’ could be as wild as “let’s have a baby together”, “let’s travel abroad together”, “let’s elope together and leave our marriages behind”.
If you are reading this and it sounds like you, you are not alone. I promise you, there are many others thinking this at this very time.
The issue would feel like how to leave but the real issue is not how to leave, it is IF you even want to leave especially with not much in your marriage to go back to.
You try to run, block numbers but how do you block a number you have memorised? You find yourself too weak to cope and you end up going back stronger.
Is this the you?
